BECOMING UNSHAKEABLE
What would you be doing right now if you had an unshakable type of self-confidence? What would life look like if you were unshakable in everything you decided to do? Being unshakable means that you have achieved such a level of strength in a certain area, to the point that you are able to resist any other force, challenge, or energy, whether internal or external.
This is why most people never become unshakable in anything they do: When we start to gain strength in any area of life, we quickly start to compare it. We often compare it to the challenges before us, to others, and so on. For example, you might start to believe that you are great at cooking or playing piano, and become confident about these skills. But from the moment you have to cook in a competition on a reality show or have to play piano in a concert, you could probably lose self-confidence due to the point of reference. In such case, what would have robbed your confidence wasn't your capabilities or weakness, but the comparison, the point of reference you have used to measure the skills you always had.
The point here is that truly unshakable people never focus on the size of the challenge, the difficulties they face, the emotions or feelings they experience, whether good or bad, what others think or say, but only, and exclusively on themselves. You will only gain more strength and become unshakable in what you do when you turn down the volume of everything around you and increase the volume of that inner voice, capable to take you to the next level of enthusiasm, power, and influence. If you can handle focusing only on that voice, you will never stop growing and gaining strength. Becoming unshakeable and achieving exponential results was always about what you think and believe about yourself, and nothing else.
“You stop growing at the moment you start measuring, comparing, and competing."