Becoming an asset in Love & Life

Ever imagined a love so breathtaking! where every little girl envisioned her perfect one, Tall, Dark, Handsome, Intelligent, kind and all the beautiful qualities.

Put your hands up in the air ,if you've never had this fantacy of your prince charming as a child ;

Growing up, I had this picture of my ideal man; his amazing features and qualities, his mindset and love for God, you know all those fantasies that we all have na.

I had all that and a little more Lol. I also had this mindset of becoming a very valuable person, a blessing to my world and an asset to my Man- I wanted to be a radiant force in his life and so much more.

It was this burning desire that propelled me to push hard towards personal development and become a woman of value, deeply rooted in my principles. I longed to embody beauty, grace, and an unwavering industrious spirit as a woman.

Proverbs 31 became my closest paddy. I wholeheartedly embraced the wisdom it offered, particularly the concept of being industrious, creative and using my hands to create beautiful things.

This pursuit of personal development has been the fuel that ignites my passion even till today; I’ve been on this journey for a while now and I’m not about to stop till I BECOME all God designed me to be.

This has and still is one of my biggest drive

Fast-forward to many years later, I am so grateful for how far I’ve come, my dreams and fantasies are unfolding, even much better than I had imagined ; another reminder that God indeed exceeds our expectations, I say this with all sense of gratitude to GOD.

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FOR LADIES ONLY; Let the guys pls skip this part! *Bombastic side eye*

Enhen!

Something really surprising happened just few days to my wedding:

A young lady who had closely observed my journey on Facebook sent me a DM.

Curiously, she asked, "Now that you're getting married, will you continue all the endeavors you pursued while single? Your baking business, online trainings, and other online activities?"

I found it a bit shocking, though here was my response;

I told her that of course I will still be doing all I have been doing, but this time in a bigger way and on a larger scale.

It became clear to me that some young ladies believe that marriage signals an end to their aspirations. How mistaken they are! In truth, it is the beginning of even greater and bigger things, depending on who you choose as your partner.

If you are a single Lady reading this right now, build yourself to be an asset first to yourself and also to your Man; not necessarily because he will respect and value you more even though that's part of the dividends but it's about the fact that you will be a contributor and Life rewards contributors!

Now before you say not all men value women that have built themselves to be assets or give examples based on what’s happening nowadays, I am referring to real Men, God-fearing men who know and value good women when they see one, not the other categories.

That’s why it is so important to allow the Holy Spirit give you a life partner who fear him, who is loving, kind, wise and will also make a loving father to your children.

So Sis,

even if you get married to a wealthy man, if you are not innately a contributor at heart, you will still not be much of a blessing to him. This is a call to be intentional about how you build your lives as single Lady.

So that when you get married to your sweetheart, you won’t just be a passive passenger in your marriage, but an active co-pilots, offering your skills, support, and love to build a happy home.

Let's be the kind of partners who uplift, inspire, and help our men become the best versions of themselves.

Remember, being an asset is about being a contributor, it’s about the impact we have on those around us, it’s about being a plus

Let's all be contributors, and let life reward us abundantly for our efforts.

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Rooting for you dear Sis,

Ojone