If you’re going to manifest a beloved, perfect soul family, an aligned business partner, (yes, this works for business too!) it can be really helpful to identify some of the common patterns that result in folks being on their own. What we can name in ourselves, we can shift!
- Aspects of your being have been unconsciously shut down. After experiencing hurt and disappointment, a part of you may be trying to protect your heart from future pain. If you have closed yourself to love, what signal will you be sending out? What kind of person might you magnetize? Someone that is going to come and push hard, and maybe in a prickly way, to open you up. Keeping the door close doesn’t protect you, it invites people to pound on it!
- You left some business in progress. It can be hard to attract new love if you still have one foot in the past. Are you holding on to what a former partner did to you? Didn’t do? Or what could have been? Perhaps you’ve never quite processed a particularly rough relationship, and you’re holding on to some grief or anger. Would you like your new partner to be dragging old relationships into your new connection? What impact would that have on a relationship?
- You’ve lost faith. If you’ve been looking for love for a long time, you may stop believing that there’s such a thing as a soul mate for you. You may be tempted to settle for an “okay” relationship rather than committing to a mission to find love. Anything less than your highest choice is self-sabotage.
The terrific news is that these prior relationships were all meant to help you grow, and whatever you are holding onto, and that’s weighing you down, is the energy packet that can help propel you to your next level of love and partnership. You have to feel it to move it.
