Beautiful strength
Jacinta Cubis
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I wondered where my mighty May had gone as I struggled to hang in ‘skin the cat’ for 5 seconds last week.
May was mighty because every week at calisthenics resulted in a new personal best.
?? I pushed & pulled 100 kilos on the sled.
?? I did 40 pull-ups unassisted with the green and black bands.?
?? I skinned the cat for 25 seconds – three times in a row.?
And I did better at one or the other each week.?
Mighty.
And then life interfered.?
Sleepless nights. Early morning flights. Late night returns.?
My second bout of Covid.?
I was disappointed to only push 97 kilos on the sled.?
And for needing assistance to complete my pull ups.
And needing two hands on each monkey bar – like when I first started.?
My trainer, Alex, says calisthenics means ‘beautiful strength’*.
I couldn’t see any beauty in going backwards.?
‘You’re here,’ Alex pointed out.?
‘Do what you can. Do your today best.’
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See that? There. Right there.?
One of the reasons I’ve been going to the same cali trainer for 13 years.
He cares. And not just about the workout.?
Every week, I take what I do and what we talk about into my every day.
I take the strength, endurance, flexibility, coordination and balance I build in cali into my day, my work and my life.?
To swim in rough surf. To lift a heavy suitcase. To ride up a hill. To garden for a few hours. To carry shopping bags when I’m 80.?
And I take the insights from our conversations to my facilitation, even if I’m not at my personal best.?
‘Do your best today’ is truly all I can do with every workshop and every group. I wonder if that’s true for you too.?
I didn’t smash any PBs at my workshop later that day. But the workshop was productive and built connections and trust, and the group left with the outcomes it needed.
Beautiful strength.??
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If you’re still reading and would like to explore ‘beautiful strength’ at cali, please come and join me one Wednesday morning in North Melbourne.?
Alice Woodruff did and was beaming after a few minutes, ‘I’ve just tried eight things I’ve never done before!’ And returned for more under her own steam.?
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* Calisthenics?originates from the combination of two ancient Greek words:?kállos?(κ?λλο?), meaning ‘beauty’ and?sthénos?(σθ?νο?), meaning ‘strength’?
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8 个月Jacinta 100%!! "Do your today best" is a powerful reminder for us all: to take that approach to physical training into our everyday work and lives. Thanks to your generous invite to come try calisthenics - and your intro to Alex's personal training - I'm on an inspiring journey of building strength, confidence and having fun (perhaps that's the glow after the session, not so much during it ??). Generous mentoring ?? #mentoring #personaltraining
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8 个月Omg go Jacinta! ?? I love calisthenics. I hope you show yourself some grace and have fun! This is inspiring ????
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8 个月You’re such a wonderful inspiration! Keep going!