Beating interview anxiety when you’ve got dyslexia
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Interviews can feel tough when you’ve got dyslexia: there’s often a lot of pressure around memory and masking, and in a very real sense, we’re signing up to have our skills judged by people who don’t really know anything about us. It can be an anxiety-inducing experience, especially if we really want the job that’s at stake.
Luckily, we’ve got a few hacks up our sleeve that go beyond your mum’s advice of ‘have fun and be yourself’ (although that’s not a bad suggestion either).
Let’s dive in…
?? Don’t pre-prepare yourself into a corner. ?
A lot of anxious folks feel like we’re doing the right thing if we prepare, prepare and over-prepare a perfect speech that we can memorise and reel off in the interview. But if you’re a dyslexic person who struggles with their memory, this might be a recipe for even more anxiety. What happens if you forget it all?!
Remembering things under pressure is difficult for people with some neurodivergences, and it’s worse when you know the stakes are high. Instead of memorising a speech or a set of answers, try to verbally practice potential interview questions with a friend. Not only will it help you be more adaptable in your responses, it also helps you come across as more confident and less rehearsed.
??? Get the boring stuff nailed down.
Getting the logistics sorted beforehand can reduce the mental load you have to deal with on the day, and decrease any anxiety you might bring forward into the interview. Simplify where you can, and allow yourself to do things on easy mode: would getting a taxi be a smoother ride than worrying about public transport timings, for example?
?? It might help to tell them that you’re dyslexic (but you don’t have to).
In 99.9% of cases, you’re not required to tell a prospective employer that you’re dyslexic, but disclosing opens up their legal requirement to support you with Reasonable Adjustments to the hiring process.
This could involve the ability to see questions beforehand, making the interview shorter, changing up written trial tasks, or even just getting you some reading support. And conversations like these also open up the prospect of talking about your dyslexic strengths!
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?? Try not to let a pause throw you off.
It’s easy to lose your thread when you’re talking. Remember that it’s actually a very natural and human thing to pause or stutter, and that literally everybody does it. Take a breath and start again.
If you’re interviewing remotely, you can also create a set of emergency sentence prompts to have on your screen or taped to the wall behind your computer. Remember, it’s better to keep them at eye level, because that way it’s less obvious that you’re reading off something.
? Hack the interview format with the STAR method.
STAR stands for Situation, Task, Action, Result , and it’s a handy format for structuring your responses to interview questions.
Use it to respond to questions like ‘give an example of a time when’ or ‘explain how you did this’. Talk about the situation that arose, what task it generated, what action you took, and how that resulted in a positive outcome. Keeping your thoughts in order is trickier when you’re stressed and anxious, and following a linear format like STAR allows you to be creative and showcase your skills without getting off-topic or not knowing where you’re going next.
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Nobody loves job interviews, but there are a few ways we can make them work better for us. Do you have any tips on how to beat the nerves when you’ve got dyslexia… or any cautionary tales about what you might have gotten wrong one time?
Let us know in the comments below. ??
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5 个月There is some great advice here. I like the STAR approach to a question, as it keeps my thoughts on track. I do wonder about disclosing dyslexia to a potential employee. What if they all turn me down? I would be worried about not getting a job anywhere.
Thank you for these incredibly useful tips! As a neurodiverse individual, I agree with the importance of flexibility and honesty during interviews. The STAR method is a great way to structure our responses and stay on track. ?? However, I don't think disclosing that you are dyslexic in the first interview is a good idea. You don't know if the person you are talking to has a positive or negative view of dyslexia. Highlight your strengths—it's important—without hiding your difficulties. Dyslexic individuals often have a unique ability to see the world differently, which is a great asset in a company, especially in start-ups. So, emphasize your qualities. ??
Peggy
5 个月I just love interviews. I had a lot of practice cause I sent to the principal office so often at school and question and put on the spot spontaneously throughout my whole life. This has built up a resilience and quite frankly I’m better off the cuff. Who better to answer questions about myself? Like tell me about yourself? What are your hobbies? What are you good at? I mean please that’s my favourite topic talking about me .. ha! Because of my creativity spontaneous nature who builds rapport with people instantaneously. Face to face I always get the job. It’s just getting the interview because of my resume as I don’t present so well on paper. No degree and high turn around of jobs. I just haven’t found the perfect fit. I do not believe in telling anyone you’re dyslexic. Why label yourself? Except me for who I am and with a bit of time and patience, I’ll pick it up and if I don’t, I’ll probably leave. Because my memory or lack of. I don’t worry about anything. I can’t get anxious over anything because quite frankly I forgotten about it already. At the end of the day I agree with what Mum said, be yourself and have fun.
My best advice is be honest about what you are good at and what you are not. If it’s an issue you’d rather know before you hype yourself up for the job only to find you hate working there. That also goes for sharing your passions and strengths. Maybe where you’re interviewing wants someone to come in and do the job their way not to think of new ways of doing things. As a big picture thinker and problem solver that can be very difficult as you’re constantly feeling stuck or screaming in your head that there are so many better ways they could do things. A great idea if you have dyslexia is to work for smaller start-up companies. Those are the places looking for new ideas and to improve processes which you can be perfectly well equipped to deal with.
Risk Consulting Associate at RSM US LLP
5 个月Things I wish I knew before I had my first interview! Many of the points in this article I am able to resonate with, specifically the over preparing leading to greater anxiety. I also like to remind myself that job interviews work both ways! If the company is so minutely focused on my simple mistakes during the interview then it isn’t the company for me. I bring valuable skills to the table and a company that focuses on those are the people I want to work with!