Bandhak- Are you a master of your life or a slave?
Praful Chatrapati
Entrepreneur | Startup Mentor | Fundraising Expert & Anchor | Transforming Ideas | 75+ Startups Mentored | Handholding from Validation to Valuation
Are you a master of your life or a slave ?, Big question, may hurt you but let’s face the reality, my friend. There are two ways the journey of life is moving. First, your life is on a driving seat and you are a pillion rider, where life has all the control to take you wherever life wants to take you. You have no choice and when life is easy, you feel happy and when it takes you on rough patches, you have no choice and wait for the plain road. Life is never is easy, it’s a tough master.
Another way, you take a driving seat and life is your pillion. Yes initially it seems like a responsibility, all risk is on you and you have to deal with all that pressure. But not to forget, here you have complete control in your hands, you can decide where to go, which road to choose, which path to follow, and set your own destinations. You can define when to stop, when to move and where all you want to reach. No doubt chances of rough patches are here too but when you have all control, you can either change the path or move as per your convenience and life will follow you.
So now, you have to know currently who is on the driving seat. If not you, why not, and why you are afraid to take the driving seat. Let’s investigate, any investigation must start from the start. Let’s go back to your childhood. Your every small action used to be cherished and celebrated by your parents and loved ones. when you started scrolling, when you first stood on your tiny feet, walked, and started running. Every silly & small action was the winning moment for celebration. How things changed and where you lost the winning habit.
Your parents and all loved ones always wanted you to win in everything. They are always given the best support and motivation to do your best. What happened then, it has got changed, when you started playing with other kids, now you have got a competition. You started going to school, you got competition. You are no more a winner now and accepted like that. Few are still not ready to lose and fought for winning position and it became into their habit. But you got a sweet cushion and comfort to be not winner and you comfortably absorbed it, that’s where you lost your habit of winning. They are ok with you to get into the average zone and that becomes your habit. It’s not a blame on them, they too did and repeated the same which they have got it. In fact, they always tried to push you to do good but it was only expectations without knowing the exact way to deal with it.
But Now how to correct it, what you will do if you realise and understood the real issue, there is no way to go back and correct the past but you can take the corrective step to ensure you put yourself on driving seat and take the ownership to drive your life to take to your desired destination. You have a beautiful concept and vision for yourself, you have many aspirations, plans about your life, All that is possible but you have to change the path and driver.
Now if you still have fear, excuses, and reasons to come out of the current life cycle. This means you got comfortable with current situations and not ready to try new or unheard plans. For you, anything new seems difficult and impractical. But is your current life is really easy? Standing & waiting for crowded Bus, locals, driving hours to reach office, taking tough tasks and targets from offices, dealing with insecurities, competition, office politics, on. & on. Working in the same condition for years with no assurance of growth and nothing in your control. Still, you are scared to try new things that are assuring multi-fold with timebound efforts.
It’s nothing but you are not ready to take the driving seat of life and still expecting to reach your desire destination. Forget it, it won’t happen, how many examples you have to prove your way, I have many to prove my point.
You still have a chance to take your control back in your hands. You can turn your life in just 90 days, Make best of efforts, nothing is impossible to compare to current life where you have everything insufficient, despite putting all your best. Here we promise very your efforts will ensure you are moving toward your dream life and transforming your profile from Commoner to Influencer. Influencer means fearless lifestyle, problem-solver personality, and achieving your dream in reality.
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