Bad is Actually Good

Have you ever failed or got hurt or some other kind of bad actually happened with you? You got disappointed ‘coz of it? Was it really bad or something worse could have happened to you?

After that incident happened, could you find any silver lining happening to you? If not, have an honest introspection again, please.

The first time you felt rejected must have given a new set of friends. The first time you skid your bike gave you the learning about what you should have never done. So, what happens to you is the learning in disguise, what we normally term as experience.

Let us talk of business now. You want to start it but you are not sure of whether it will happen or not. If you had been a salaried guy then the decision is tougher enough. If you feel to take care of every nook and corner of the business game and aren’t ashamed to work in any profile for your own business entity then you have nailed it right else re-plan and refocus. If you still resist then you are waiting for time where you have to compromise on certain aspects. If you find this awkward moment soon then it is for your good only.

The bad moments that you might have experienced in your relationships, the ill-health you or your dear ones might had, etc are all set to guide you to start working and act in a better way to take care of it.

May be you tend to learn the better ways to manage your relations or you just find an alternate route of relationship. The last time you fell ill may give you the zeal to workout so that you are healthier.

So, the mountain size task is to find the bad that is happening with you. This bad may be the discomfort that you face and feel in your workplace. This bad may be with the people you interact with. Simply ignoring the ‘bad’ doesn’t make it non-existent. So, have the guts to accept it.

Side away any kind of ego or pride you have so that you take up the next journey, be it a job with a lower salary but higher aspirations or be it moving away from your previous relationship and finding a better soulmate or simply to start a new business. Just be a humble guy with a down-to-earth approach is the crux.

The bad that happens around you is no way an unnatural thing. The human approach is to face it with an optimistic view and take it as positive. Learn from the experiences and use them in the next phase of life. The only good thing about life is that is ongoing with you and even without you, and even without your wimps and fantasies you have, and it goes even beyond the worries you may have or create. So, just be in love with life you have and roam around with it.

Be cool and recognize that bad is not worse and the good is always better.