Bad Attitude Can't take you anywhere
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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We must remember that dog barks but the caravan will go on. There are always people who get heavenly pleasure in hurting, blaming, and criticising others. They are fault finding in nature. They are actually mentally ill. At best, they deserved to be ignored. When you just realise, why you are targeted? You have something great for which others are jealous towards you. You are superior to them. So they want to let you down. Then it is logical to nullify their ill design with better performance.
Then you should upgrade yourself with proper education, grooming, and hard work. Leave no stone unturned to develop you. There is no end to self-improvement. Develop your inner qualities with prolonged practice. Practise your thing before your friends and before the mirror. The mock performance will improve your actual performance. Equipped with knowledge and practice, you are ready to take on any challenge.
This is a far-out guess but there is one condition that, makes you think that the people around you are much more negative toward you than they really are and this same condition really conditions you to respond to them in the negative way that you see them, rather than the way that they really are. Hence the result is the same as a bad attitude, but it is not so much your doing, as it is the work of the disease itself. now as I have said there is way too little information here to conclude, but several things here point to chronic depression. Chronic depression depresses you every day so that becomes your reality so that you never really suspect that you are depressed.
And to find out requires that you visit a psychiatrist who will ask you multiple questions and if he suspects that I am correct he will probably prescribe a pill, if the pill hits the mark you will notice a dramatic change in the way that you perceive the whole world. if I am wrong the pill will do nothing and sadly you will be right where you are today with no change. It might be worth a try.
We know that chronic depression is a disease of the brain chemistry that has nothing to do with the common noun “depression” or “feeling sad”, and there is no way you alone without a pill to adjust that chemistry will have any effect on this disease by your self. So forget about pulling your self up by your own bootstraps. What is the motivation of the person telling you that? Do they sincerely give a damn about your well being? Once you have established that it just might be in tour best interest to take a look, the 4 step process begins. Awareness, acceptance, mindfulness, loving kindness.
When you take a sincere look at yourself. Understand that you are the architect of your life. Generally speaking bad attitudes = bad outcomes. Is your life going as you like? Are you blaming others for outcomes that you don’t like? What’s the underlying emotion behind your attitude? This develops awareness. Once you have that it’s time to move to acceptance.
Well before entering into room full of people, I heard people were talking about, she seems like a boss..she has ruling power and personality too,one of them she must be badass, she is bold as anyone would imagine. Now I entered into the room and took one chair sit within all of them. I may have bad attitude,but this vary person to person,situation to situation. I may be out spoken,because it's better to be naked face rather to carry fake smiles for someone and start back bitching about them.
Be who you are,and be least bother about what people talk about you. Remember,they will never run your house and neither they will ever feed you single meal for a day. Now if somebody tells you about your attitude you have to analyze yourself whether it right and if you need to change then you must change your attitude and take it positively because not everybody yells you about your weak sides and it depends how they told and who told you.We all are born with choices,choice what good for you. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks850articles #proudtobeindian
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4 年Great analogy.
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4 年Kishore Shintre thank you for sharing. The only difference between a good day and a bad day is your attitude. Our thoughts can move us forward or leave us paralyzed.
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4 年Great article Kishore People who live in glass houses should not throw stones . Rise above judgemental and hostile comments Time is too precious to waste on superficial people Always be happy in our own skin and follow our own path in life. Keep well and have a lovely Thursday. ????
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4 年Thank you Dear Friend Abdulla, stay blessed