? Avoid These Guest Faux Pas This Holiday Season ?
Joy Sceizina
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Attending an event at someone’s house this year? Your host might invite you to ‘make yourself at home.’?
Don’t take that literally.
Being a guest in someone else’s home means that you need to be respectful of their privacy, comfort level, and general expectations.?
? Don’t expect a tour. Your host may have any number of reasons for not wanting to show you the entire house. Maybe they didn’t have time to clean everywhere or they’re in the middle of remodeling. If a tour is offered, then by all means take it and point out things you admire in the house! Just don’t assume a tour is a given.
? Don’t overstay your welcome. It can be uncomfortable for hosts to tell people that the event is over, and they don’t have the option of leaving when they’re done. Unless you know the hosts extremely well, err on the side of leaving too early instead of leaving too late.?
? Don’t snoop. I know, it’s SO tempting! You might want to open drawers or peek inside medicine cabinets just to see how they’re organized or what the contents are. DON’T DO IT. Snooping is one of the most disrespectful things you can do as a guest in someone else’s home.?
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? Bring a small gift. Here are some of my favorite ideas: flowers, dessert, kitchen consumables, a plant, a candle, wine, a chic cutting board, or a cookbook. Lean into the season and what you know about the host or hostess. The point isn’t to spend a ton of money but simply to express your gratitude for being welcomed into their home.?
? Help clean up. At the very least, clean up after yourself. Throw your trash away and carry your dishes to the sink. If your host is willing to accept more help, you might clear the table, rinse dishes, or even take out a full trash bag.?
? Prepare to take your shoes off. Shoes are a big no-no in many households, especially if your host comes from a different culture, is a germaphobe, or has crawling children at home. Know that they might ask you to take your shoes off at the door, and come prepared. You might bring socks or slippers to keep your feet warm and comfortable throughout the event.
Being a kind and courteous guest is the best way to ensure you’ll receive an invitation to come back to future events!
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1 年Yes this is great! The proper etiquette is of utmost importance especially when you are a guest at someone else’s home.
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2 年Well said joy great advice, respectful and kind ??
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2 年Being a good holiday guest is tricky business. On the one hand, you want to be on your best behavior and show your hosts how grateful you are for their invitation. But on the other hand, you don't want to be a doormat or a killjoy. So how can you strike the perfect balance? First of all, it's important to be punctual. No one wants to wait around for their guests to show up. Secondly, be respectful of your host's home. Take your shoes off at the door, and don't help yourself to their food without asking first. Third, mind your manners. Say please and thank you, and try not to start any arguments with the other guests. Finally, don't overstay your welcome. Knowing when to make your exit is a valuable skill for any holiday guest. By following these simple guidelines, you can make sure that you're both naughty and nice this holiday season.
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2 年Great advices dear Joy Sceizina?Thank you so much for sharing this insightful post???? Empathy works well in situation like that! Have a blessed new week ahead my friend??