Authentic Communication: Why I'm Speaking My Mind More

I've been making a conscious effort to speak my mind in conversations these days. I used to blame myself when others brushed me off or outright rejected me, thinking I must've done something wrong, even when I couldn't put my finger on it. This self-doubt was really chipping away at my confidence.

In the past, I'd downplay my successes to avoid seeming like I was bragging. But I've come to see that wasn't doing me any favors.

I was also guilty of overthinking every word I'd say, trying to fine-tune my messages before they even left my mouth. This just ended up making me sound less genuine.

As time passed, I've come to understand the fickle nature of human approval. It’s often based on superficial reasoning, which is neither my responsibility nor within my control.

A big wake-up call was finding friends who accepted me for who I am, quirks and all. This kind of acceptance makes chasing approval from others way less important.

So now, I'm focusing on changing my social and professional circles, not myself. Also, I tend to ignore people who brush me off. Being with people who appreciate a straight talker has helped me be more open and true to myself.

Sharing our true selves without fear or reservation is not just liberating—it's a fundamental step toward meaningful connections and professional fulfillment.