Attachment vs Commitment

Attachment vs Commitment

What are you attached to?

It’s a barrier to Your Ultimate Joy!

It keeps from being curious

Stops your creativity?

Keeps you comfortably miserable?


Why not experiment with being in your Ultimate Joy with play?


Attachment vs Commitment?


When you are committed it looks different?


When I was attached to hating my husband I stayed uncomfortably miserable for years. When I shifted to being committed to the safety of my children, I opened my world to possibilities beyond me. When I was attached to being replenished I was in the tunnel vision of the next refill and keeping my eyes in the brim.


When I became committed to being free to be I opened myself to the possibility of discovering what that meant for me. For years I was the Stress Less Mom helping moms to get from chaos to calm.

That attachment to stressing less was the chaos?

When I got committed to joy mongering I started living for my ultimate joy


I need a six month break from my husband not knowing that would look like and when the same opportunities available to me before presented themselves I made different choices and created a new series of events


To connect all of the dots you are either attached to a way of being or committed to the possibility of living your ultimate joy which offers you shifts your way of being beyond your imagination.

Listen to my latest micro episode here.

As you listen what comes up for you?

Tell me at [email protected]


#commitment #attachment #ultimatejoy #freetobe

Adigun Temitayo J. MBA, PMP, Rex-Fellow

LinkedIn Top Voice?Project | Manufacturing Excellence | Supply Chain | Engineering | People Engagement I NGO Executive | Founder-WHRF | Trustee CleanUpUK??| SDGs Champion l Father?Husband | Co-Author BuildingYourSuccess

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