Ask questions: The Single Most Important Habit for Innovative Thinkers
Questions are the best way to gain deeper insights and develop more innovative solutions. So why do so few people utilize them, asks Amanuel Yohannes?
Children learn by asking questions. Students learn by asking questions. Recruits learn by asking questions. Innovators understand client needs by asking questions. It is the simplest and most effective way of learning. People, who think that they know it all no longer ask questions – why should they? Brilliant thinkers never stop asking questions because they know that this is the best way to gain deeper insights.
Eric Schmidt, CEO of Google, said, “We run this company on questions, not answers.” He knows that if you keep asking questions you can keep finding better answers.
When Greg Dyke became Director-General of the BBC in 2000 he went to every major location and assembled the staff. They came expecting a long presentation. He simply sat down with them and asked a question, “What is the one thing I should do to make things better for you?” Then he listened. He followed this with another question, “What is the one thing I should do to make things better for our viewers and listeners?” He knew that he could learn more from his employees than they could from him at that early stage. The workers at the BBC had many wonderful ideas that they were keen to share. The fact that the new boss took time to question and then listen earned him enormous respect.
Columbo solves his mysteries by asking many questions; as do all the great detectives – in real life as well as fiction. All the great inventors and scientists asked questions. Isaac Newton asked, “Why does an apple fall from a tree?” and, “Why does the moon not fall into the Earth?” Charles Darwin asked, “Why do the Galapagos islands have so many species not found elsewhere?” Albert Einstein asked, “What would the universe look like if I rode through it on a beam of light?” By asking these kinds of fundamental questions, they started the process that led to their tremendous breakthroughs.
The great philosophers spend their whole lives asking deep questions about the meaning of life, morality, truth, etc. We do not have to be quite so contemplative but we should nonetheless ask deep questions about the situations we face. It is the best way to get the information we need to make informed decisions and for salespeople, it is the single most important skill they need to succeed.
Why don’t we ask questions?
If it is obvious that asking questions is such a powerful way of learning why do we stop asking questions? For some people, the reason is that they are lazy. They assume they know all the main things they need to know and they do not bother to ask more. They cling to their beliefs and remain certain in their assumptions – yet they often end up looking foolish.
Other people are afraid that by asking questions they will look weak, ignorant, or unsure. They like to give the impression that they are decisive and in command of the relevant issues. They fear that asking questions might introduce uncertainty or show them in a poor light. In fact, asking questions is a sign of strength and intelligence – not a sign of weakness or uncertainty. Great leaders constantly ask questions and are well aware that they do not have all the answers.
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With prospect, with clients, at school, at home, in business, with our friends, family, colleagues, or managers we can check assumptions and gain a better appreciation of the issues by first asking questions. Start with very basic, broad questions then move to more specific areas to clarify your understanding. Open questions are excellent – they give the other person or people a chance to give broad answers and they open up matters. Examples of open questions are:
As we listen carefully to the answers we formulate further questions. When someone gives an answer we can often ask, “Why?” The temptation is to plunge in with our opinions, responses, conclusions, or proposals. The better approach is to keep asking questions to deepen our comprehension of the issues before making up our minds. Once we have mapped out the main points we can use closed questions to get specific information. Closed questions give the respondent a limited choice of responses – often just yes or no. Examples of closed questions are:
By giving the other person a limited choice of responses we get specific information and deliberately move the conversation forward in a particular direction.
Asking many questions is very effective but it can make you appear to be inquisitorial and intrusive. So it is important to ask questions in a friendly and unthreatening way. Do not ask accusing questions. “What do you think happened?” will probably get a better response than, “Are you responsible for this disaster?” Try to pose each question in a way and ensure that your body language is relaxed and amicable. Do not jab your finger or lean forward as you put your requests.
Try to practice asking more questions in your everyday conversations. Instead of telling someone something, ask them a question. Intelligent questions stimulate, provoke, inform and inspire. Questions help us to teach as well as to learn.
Source: Paul Sloane "The Leader’s Guide to Lateral Thinking Skills and The Innovative Leader"
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2 年Questions are very often the 'answers' we need. A marvelous share here Amanuel.