The Art of the "Yes Man": Corporate Success Through Flattery and Agreeableness
Samir Shrestha
Global Certified Recruitment Manager | Opportunity Connector | Talent Acquisition Professional and Process Consultant | Innovative Recruiting Strategist: Finding the Right Talent for Your Organization | 2800+ Hires
In today's workplace, the 'Yes Man' has become a key figure. Their success depends not on hard work or skill but on agreeing, smiling, and complimenting others. In some companies, the real advantage comes from the ability to flatter and conform.
The Skill of Agreeing Without Thinking
A true Yes Man knows how to nod along without really thinking. Nodding shows, "Yes, Boss, you're very wise." While others think critically or disagree, the Yes Man believes that silent agreement is the best teamwork. It's not about resolving differences; it's about the act of nodding.
Flattery – A Useful Tool
Complimenting your boss is not just polite; it's brilliant. A Yes Man understands that praising every small win, like a late presentation or a messy email, helps them succeed. They see ordinary efforts as outstanding achievements and know that flattery leads to advancement.
The Art of Soft Criticism
Sometimes, a Yes Man needs to give feedback, but they do it carefully. Instead of pointing out significant issues, they highlight minor, unimportant flaws to stay safe. For example, suggesting a different colour for slide titles shows they are involved without offending anyone.
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The Disappearing Act During Hard Work
Yes Men are experts at disappearing when real work needs to be done. This behaviour might help them, but it can hurt the team. They agree with management but slip away when tasks arise, popping back later to take credit. By avoiding responsibilities, they maintain their good reputation.
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Staying Safe by Following the Leader
Yes Men have a built-in safety against being fired. They echo management's opinions and become loyal supporters. They aren't just employees; they reflect authority and keep their jobs by sticking closely to those in power.
........................sometimes success rewards conformity over contribution.
Finding Success in Inaction
For the Yes Man, success relies on being seen rather than taking action. They realise that just showing up at meetings, nodding, and complimenting others creates an impression of dedication without real effort. Their mantra is simple: "Activity does not equal productivity."
The Benefit of Staying Power – Promotions and Raises
While others work hard, Yes Men often get promotions and raises for being agreeable. By never challenging management and always supporting them, they build a reputation for reliability and loyalty and quickly rise up the corporate ladder.
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Leaving a Legacy of Empty Words
A true Yes Man creates a culture based on flattery and complacency. They avoid addressing challenges, leaving behind a norm of mediocrity. Their legacy is not about achievements but about an environment of comfortable agreement.
"This lighthearted view of the Yes Man highlights a fundamental issue: sometimes success rewards conformity over contribution. In settings where performance is measured by the ability to flatter, taking on the Yes Man role might lead to corporate success".
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2 周Insightful
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2 周I agree but the fact that the one who is in position is more incompetent as s/he is simply amused by flattery and lickery and does not appreciate sincere efforts which actually impacts the prospective growth of the company cannot be ignored!
Head of Employee Experience - Daraz NP | MCP Faculty- ICMS, Samarpan | Counseling Psychologist
2 周Right on Samir Shrestha ??????