The Art of Strutting: Tales of Ego and Superiority
Min Choo Gan
Global People Leader | PMP | ITIL v4 Master & ITIL v3 Expert | SIAM & VeriSM Specialist | Cloud Operations Strategist | ISO 20000 & ISO 27001 LA Certified | Driving Excellence in Service and Delivery
Have you ever noticed how we humans often craft stories to inflate our egos? It reminds me of what George Orwell famously penned: "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others." It’s like the peacock strutting its stuff, flaunting its colorful feathers to feel superior, isn't it? We're all guilty of it in our own way, finding ways to convince ourselves of our own greatness.
"Ever find yourself thinking you're better than others? If yes, what makes you feel that way?"
In our quest for validation and significance, we often create narratives that elevate our self-worth. It's as if we're performing a grand show, showcasing our achievements, talents, and possessions to assert our superiority over others. We seek external validation to reinforce our sense of self-importance, even if it means exaggerating our abilities or downplaying the achievements of others.
But beneath the fa?ade of superiority lies a universal truth: we are all flawed and imperfect. No one is truly superior to another. Our need to feel superior stems from our insecurities and fear of being insignificant. In reality, true greatness lies not in self-aggrandizement, but in humility and genuine connections with others.
So, let's take a moment to reflect on our own tendencies to strut and boast. By acknowledging our ego-driven behaviors, we can begin to cultivate a more authentic sense of self-worth. Let's embrace humility and celebrate the unique qualities and contributions of every individual, recognizing that true greatness lies in unity and compassion. In our humility wisdom finds home.Seeking it, we learn that humility isn't putting ourselves down. It putting other before us.
It's not about being "more equal" than others, but about fostering a sense of equality and respect for all. Together, we can create a world where ego takes a backseat, and genuine connections flourish. Pride brings a person low, but the lowly in spirit gain honor. [PROVERBS 29:23]