"Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable." — Cesar A. Cruz
Emma G - TEDx Speaker, Singer, and Youth Empowerment coach
Survivor of 10 brain surgeries, and now singing, speaking, and coaching about music and mental & emotional health. ??
Happy Thursday, friends!
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the role of art in surviving adversity — how creativity isn’t just an escape, but a lifeline.
I’ve spent the last few days listening to comedians talk about how comedy helps us confront and even laugh through society’s biggest struggles. But for me? Music has always been that tool.
Not to make light of pain, but to make sense of it.
Because when you’re knee-deep [or waist-deep or neck-deep for real] in trauma, grief, or just the daily overwhelm of life, words can feel impossible to find. But music? Music simplifies what feels complicated. It helps us to clarify what seems impossible to untangle. It gives us a roadmap forward — turning our emotions into something we can hold space for, communicate effectively about, and ultimately heal through.
This is exactly why I wrote Grieve, my upcoming single dropping March 15th.
Because grief isn’t just about loss. It’s about transformation. It’s about finding your way back to yourself — through the heartbreak, the anger, the questions, and eventually… the light.
Whether we’re grieving a person, a dream, or a version of ourselves we had to leave behind — naming the pain is the first step to healing it. My husband often says "you can't defeat an enemy you don't see" [can you tell he's a self defense instructor?] And that’s exactly what songwriting does.
Here's the intro for the upcoming music video.
Okay, so HOW does Songwriting Change Everything?
Every week, I have the privilege of helping my clients—some as young as 12, some in their 60s — turn their pain into power through songwriting. And here’s what it's reaffirmed for me:
One of my clients—a 60-something-year-old woman—recently told me, “I've always written short poems, but I've never really figured out how to find the right words - let alone the right melody.” But now we're up to song number 3, and I'm not gonna lie: she's killing it. I've had one of her songs stuck in my head for weeks.
I also worked with a 11-year-old girl recently, who wrote lyrics that made me stop in my tracks. Her unapologetic honesty [not yet completely tainted by the societal pressures we often put on young girls] is turning her struggles into an anthem for every other kid who feels unheard, unseen, or stuck in their own silence. Her lyrics went something like this:
You can treat yourself right / If you just listen to?your heart
If you can stand by? yourself / You’ll never get torn apart
You'll be alright / If you got you
Your inside scars / Are seen by no one else but you
Your scars will heal once you love you
And others will realize their scars are healed too
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That’s why I do this work.
Your Voice Deserves to Be Heard
If you’ve been holding something in—whether it’s grief, frustration, or a story that’s been sitting on your heart for too long—maybe it’s time to write it out. Sing it out.
Your voice matters. Your experiences matter. And art gives us the space to process what words alone can’t.
Which brings me back to you:
I’d love to hear your thoughts. Hit reply and tell me. And if you’re ready to explore songwriting as a healing tool, let’s talk. Because music isn’t just about surviving adversity—it’s about reclaiming your power through it.
What’s Coming Up
I'm not gonna lie; March is turning out to be a much busier month than I anticipated.
Of course, if you have an event that fits between that schedule, and want to find out more about hiring me, you know what to do!
You don’t have to carry the weight of the world alone. And whatever adversity you're struggling with; you definitely don’t have to stay silent.
Let’s turn your story into something powerful.
Rock on, stay inspired, and have an amazing day on purpose.
~ Emma G
PS. Of course, because it's Thursday, I just dropped a new track over on Patreon from my vault. This one was professionally recorded back in 2018/2019, but I never got around to releasing it. Check it out here, and tell me what you think!