??The Art of Healing Through Dual Awareness
Varundeep Sachi. PCC
??HRD Employee Relations | ??Ayur Life & Leadership Coach | IIM Alumnus | PCC - ICF | Board Member | Pinnacle Wellness Champion & HR Next Star Award winner??Author | Mentor | CSR & DEI Advocate | Motivational Speaker ??
Aleena's journey towards healing began on a rainy afternoon. The sky was a blanket of grey, mirroring the turmoil within her. She had tried everything to escape the shadows of her past, but they clung to her like an unwelcome ghost. Therapy sessions, self-help books, even yoga retreats—nothing seemed to untangle the knot of trauma lodged in her chest. That was until she met Upagupta, a mentor known for his wisdom and unconventional methods.
?Aleena first saw Upagupta during a community wellness seminar. His calm demeanor and insightful words struck a chord within her. She approached him after the session, hesitantly sharing a brief overview of her struggles. He listened intently, his eyes radiating a serene understanding.
?"Have you ever heard of dual awareness?" he asked.
?Aleena shook her head, intrigued but unsure. Upagupta invited her to his tranquil study, filled with the scent of sandalwood and the sound of soft, flowing water. It was a sanctuary, a stark contrast to the chaos she often felt.
?"Dual awareness," Upagupta began, "is a powerful concept, particularly in trauma recovery. It's the backbone of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, or EMDR. It leverages a unique human ability: our capacity to divide consciousness. We can exist in the past and the present simultaneously; we can feel awful and hopeful, be scared and calm."
?Aleena was skeptical. "How can being in two places at once help me? Isn’t that what I’m already doing when my trauma takes over?"
?Upagupta smiled gently. "The key difference is choice. Consciously chosen dual awareness is a game changer. Instead of being trapped in the past, you acknowledge it while grounding yourself in the present. It allows you to process trauma without being overwhelmed by it."
?He guided her through a simple exercise. "Close your eyes, Aleena. Take a deep breath and picture a distressing memory. Now, while you hold that memory in your mind, feel the weight of this cushion in your hands, hear the sound of my voice, and sense your feet on the floor. You are here, in this room, safe. But you can also see the past. This duality is your strength."
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?Aleena followed his instructions. She visualized a painful event from her childhood, feeling the familiar surge of anxiety. But as she focused on the physical sensations anchoring her to the present, something shifted. The memory was still there, vivid and distressing, but it no longer had the power to engulf her. She was both in the past and firmly in the now.
?"How do you feel?" Upagupta asked.
?"A bit lighter," Aleena admitted, surprised. "Like I can observe the memory without being pulled under by it."
?Upagupta nodded. "Exactly. With practice, this technique can help you navigate through your trauma, allowing you to heal at a deeper level. It's about finding balance and embracing the paradox of dual awareness: you can be in pain and still find moments of peace."
?Over the next few months, Aleena worked closely with Upagupta. She practiced dual awareness daily, gradually reclaiming parts of herself she thought were lost forever. She learned to acknowledge her painful memories without letting them dominate her life. It wasn't an easy path, and there were days when the past felt too overwhelming. But with Upagupta's guidance, she discovered a resilience she didn't know she possessed.
?One particularly stormy night, Aleena found herself reflecting on her journey. She realized that dual awareness had become more than a coping mechanism; it was a source of empowerment. By consciously choosing to divide her consciousness, she had transformed her relationship with her past. She was no longer a prisoner of her trauma but a survivor forging a new path forward.
?Aleena's story spread through her community, inspiring others to explore the concept of dual awareness. She even began mentoring others, sharing the wisdom Upagupta had imparted to her. In embracing the duality of their experiences, they too found a way to navigate their pain and uncover hope and calm amid the chaos.
?And so, in a small corner of the world, the transformative power of dual awareness blossomed, one healing heart at a time.
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