The art of asking anything

In a different writing I once mentioned that the key reason we don't get what we want is we can't ask in a proper manner.

I found the following golden rules.

1. Ask for something which will be an addition to what you already have
2. Ask who has the ability to give by himself
3. Ask to someone who love to give what you are looking for (most important strategy)
4. Ask to someone so it doesn't become a waste of their time ( don't consume unnecessary time with insinuation ask directly)
5. Bring enough proof that you are an action oriented person and their help will not go in vein
6. Never ask something what they can't give without effort ( don't ask a teacher a job, ask him for a refence if you are very well known to him)
7. Timing is the key, without rapport never ask
8. Just you are connected in FB or Linked in don't give you right to ask, you have to earn it.
9. Before asking make sure you are ready to receive
10. Ask only when it is dire necessity

Hope this will help.