The Arrogance of Fame?
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The Arrogance of Fame?

As I soared through the clouds, I found myself contemplating the behaviour of those we often elevate to the status of celebrities. The hum of the aircraft engines filled the cabin, prompting a recollection of an incident that starkly illustrated the arrogance of fame.

Imagine this: a bustling airport terminal, passengers hustling through security checks, and amidst the throng, a celebrity stood (whom I did not recognise). Her presence was marked by a couple of fans seeking selfies. Yet, it was her demeanour that caught my attention—an air of entitlement that seemed to repel rather than attract.

As passengers boarded the bus towards the aircraft, a young man standing next to her recognised her with excitement. Gathering his courage, he approached and asked for a photo. Handing his phone to a fellow traveller, a picture was taken. But as he attempted to adjust his position for an Instagram-ready shot, she pulled the phone and almost threw it as she exclaimed,

" Bahoot Ho gaya, Album thodi banana hai”

That's enough, we are not here to make an album." Her partner, held her hand and said "relax, its just a photo". Her sharp words, coupled with her turning away, left the young man disheartened. In that moment, it became evident how fame had distorted the perceived celebrity's sense of human connection. Instead of embracing genuine encounters, she recoiled. What struck me most was not her desire for privacy, but the manner in which it was expressed—with an inhuman disregard for courtesy.

The incident highlights the inherent disconnect between fame and humility. While privacy is undoubtedly precious, it should not shield against basic human decency. Celebrities, like all of us, seek moments of solitude, yet they must remember the responsibility that accompanies their elevated status. As Spider-Man's uncle wisely said, "With great power comes great responsibility" a sentiment sorely missed in this case.

As the aircraft descended, it dawned, fame, though coveted, should never cloud one's humanity. In a world where admiration often verges on idolatry, it's important for celebrities to remember that their pedestal is upheld by those who look up to them. I've encountered celebrities who graciously accepted selfies, while some requested privacy, a gesture I respected. Mutual respect for privacy and humility is key.

So, should you find yourself as a celebrity, soaring through the skies, remember that true greatness lies not in fame's heights, but in humility's depths. Perhaps then, you'll remember that we are all human, regardless of titles or accolades.

PS: I am still scratching my head trying to identify who the celebrity was.

Willis Langford

HR Director | Talent Management | Inclusion | Author | Life Enthusiast | Learning Architect | Leadership Coach | Servant Leadership | Speaker

11 个月

One of my all-time favourite books – Purpose Driven Life ! Knowing that there’s someone greater than I is what keeps me grounded. A lovely sharing, Dr. Brillian S. K.

I agree with you completely. Those who are wise would recognize that fame, position, power, wealth may not last forever.

Kavita Bose Karwarkar

Lead (HRBP) - Human Resources at HubbleHox | Strategic HR Management driving organizational growth

11 个月

Totally agree.. In a world where fame often seems fleeting, it's essential to remember our roots and the values that ground us. While achieving recognition and success is commendable, it's our commitment to humanity that truly defines us.

Anujaa Navaratnaa

Empowering Professionals | Ex - CRISIL | HR Consultant | Queer Inclusive Career Coach | PoSH Consultant | DEI Consultant | Certified Life Coach | Youth Mentor | Proud LGBTQ+ Ally |

11 个月

Totally agree. The same happens in most professions, not only in the glamour world.

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