THE ARETE WRAP UP
If you ever wanted to know why I fly all over the United States and network with the best of the best in the industry, read below. If you have sensitive feelings... keep scrolling, I speak in truths and from the heart.
CHRIS SCOVILLE·MONDAY, OCTOBER 28, 2019·13 MINUTES 874 Reads
First off, this is my words, my notes and my thoughts. *If I have misspelled, taken something out of context or hurt your feelings with my imperfections, sorry I am not sorry. I’m doing this not only to reflect back on the event, but to maybe, just maybe help other people that are interested in leveling the fuck up.
Now that is established and the disclosure* is read...let’s dig in. A few years ago I got into the habit of taking notes at masterminds and then doing a little recap afterwords. Ive found myself going back to the notes and getting something out of them down the road. I hope you find value in these words, and if you have anything to add...please do so in comments...this will help others as they read.
Special shout out to Jon Paramore for the invitation and continued support on my journey.
Another Wrap Up: (Emily Frisella) rocked this one out in Dallas!
The Hashtags:
https://aretesyndicate.com
Let’s Roll: (page 1)
Do shit: Stop talking about doing
Learn how to win
Get clean on your outcome(s)
Transform your life and what needs to be transformed?
Clear Outcomes-Optimize your approach
“The Purpose” fix problems in society”
Work ethic-Care for People-This is a movement to fix culture/society
Problem Solving - Obligation to fix problems
CORE VALUES
Set at a Level to learn from
Set Value up high for others
Core Values on “doing the right thing(s)
Be a good human-WE have an obligation to do so
Duty to do good / great things - help - teach - lift up - make a difference
Enter the Powells (Chris and Heidi)
Be open about your challenges
Everyone see success, but rarely see failures and the road to get there
It is ok to lose 11 times and win a few (learn from both: win/loss)
Turning Points and rock bottom: when was your turning point?
Have a purpose-What is your purpose?
Fixer- Are you a fixer? if so Why? and if you are...are you willing to fix yourself too?
Integrity: change lives: the meeting at the “self help” group
Tactical Action: NOT concepts
Be OPEN and Be Vulnerable
Lead with Authenticity - Don’t posture to be perfect, Posture to be Honest
Posture: Openly and Honestly
Tell what is working and what is not working-break down the walls
Dream Big together: Help her hit her dreams
Does your network support your dreams, is it time to “fire mom”
If you have reports not supporters, time to move on (reporters/supports is my ad lib)
Are they willing to sacrifice to make dreams reality?
Time to roll up the sleeves and DO THE WORK
DREAM together, set PRIORITIES together, Set VISIONS together
Give them reassurance and support
Check out the Chris and Ed podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-v00u0ActM
This all takes work-Do what it takes-Find Balance in the PROCESS
Break down your priorities -List them and then WORK THEM
Support each other back-Do they share the same dream?
Encourage them to CRUSH their own DREAMS as well
Fear of abandonment- What fear are you facing?
Reframing failure - learn from failure - it inspires change
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Miscellaneous Arete Syndicate Speakers Notes
Need to get back to being uncomfortable
Action: be in motion
Belief:
Consistency: Show up every damn day
There is not perfect time - Successful people just do it
Believe in yourself 1st - What is possible - Potential - Social Programming is bullshit
Be aware of everything - Show up everyday - be looking for TEST DAYS -
Put the WORK in - Everyday is “Arete”
One step forward matters - makes the difference - lock into a DREAM - transform
Live a blissful life - don’t settle for modest life
Set up systems and processes for everything (procedures)
CORE VALUES- Don’t live a Comfortable life
Enter Jesse Itzler...
Never let them BOO you
It’s ok to be the last man standing in 5th place (and the oldest)
Aunt Frannie Brownies story and lessons
The Point of Differentiation
What makes you DIFFERENT - BE DIFFERENT (the hows - the whys - the whats)
Luck happens when you attract it
Dont take the foot off the gas pedal
Keep setting higher goals
Intersection: What do you love to do, what are you good at, what products and services help people
Do what you LOVE to do
What are your really, like really good at
Does your product serve and help others?
PEOPLE - MOMENTUM - STORIES
I am the BUSINESS plan
Ideas surface to the top of your head, that is when the universe is serving you
Establish credibility
A---------------> B and get there FUCKING FASTER (HOW TO DO IT)
STAR Power Sells
Don’t neglect your goals
Plots change, Scripts change
Do not NEGOTIATE GOALS
If you don’t have a seat at the TABLE - MAKE ONE
Pressure is a privilege - GREAT things happen with pressure
SERVE the hell out of your clients and customers
Compliment them
Congratulate them
Console them
Show up and then never leave - get the referrals (R4method)
Don’t compromise your GOALS for anything
Experience takes too long
Retain with innovations
Get over fear of embarrassment
Have no FEAR of embarrassment
Get over rejection
Self Doubt SUCKS - it is the enemy of success
Create your OWN luck
Lasting change takes time... its is ok to take the time (just move faster)
Change your habits
Fight RUTS, Dinner, TV, Rinse Repeat,,,paradigm shift
You cant get better with that repetition, repetitions sucks if concentrated in the wrong tasks, COMFORT SUCKS
Create VALUE: Obsess on it, leave it all on the line, Discipline, What are your NON Negotiables, Bucket it if it doesn't fit
REMEMBER TOMORROW
What decision with impact
Habits - start tomorrow today - map it out - write the SCRIPT
One Amazing Habit each day will equal one hell of an awesome year
The Fuck It bucket list
Get 12 winning habits in 2020 - you are BORN - the BUS starts moving - No Reverse - no Brakes - it just keeps moving - Then the BUS STOPS
What did you bring to this life on the BUS?
Change your HABITS
Challenge and PUSH - Don’t be the 80% version of yourself - Don’t Get Comfy
I dont operate in expressions
Limitations put on yourself are self imposed
Put pressure on you 40% rules, when your BRAIN says you are done, you are not done
The BRAIN stops us, ignore it and tap into your reserve tanks for heroic success
Grit is future success
Start the process NOW
I DID NOT COME THIS FAR TO ONLY COME THIS FAR
Momentum breeds momentum
Make sure your product is GREAT
Create a story, stories sell - Start Small - Think Big - Scale Fast
What is the path you want - Why do you want the $ - Is more always better - what is the path you want - and at what expense
Work hard but don’t lose you over it
Big Results = Big Decisions
@edmylett
Ladys and Gents Mr. Ed Mylett
Tactical talk - Set New Standards - Change it and Set it
Standards - Evaluate all of it
Are you Average - Despise Average HATE on the average parts - Average is Failures - Average is run of the mill
How do you make the CHANGE: make a decision - Flood it with certainty - take massive - do it with Speed
The straw story: Do it faster - refraction - speed of light - speed alters perception
Depth perception: wealth is not that far away
Don’t PACE THE RACE (don’t pace your self - race yourself)
Move your ACTION QUICKLY
So why is it hard to change - the mind is present - apply to win GOALS
Feel like you will get them - Mind - Body in unison State of Being
Produce Consistent Results (PCR) Set Goals
The Chuck Lindell Interview Glass Jaw Story
Thoughts and Feelings, Safe Zone - Changes everything dramatically
Thoughts magnetic to change - feelings are magnetic
Imagery - imagine it - thinking the thought - rewire the mind and body together
GOAL: repeat the scene of the achievement of the goal
Feel what it would feel like to be in the goal
Gratitude for the attainment
Program yourself that you are in possession of it
Wire your goals and visions in the body
Modern Day Meditation Moving Experience Scenes of Achievement
Moving Goals into your mind while in motion - move with gratitude - mind and body in unison
Rehearse the scene
The SON GOLF STORY - change the standard - COMPETE TO WIN
BE the BEST in the WORLD BE OBSESSED
MORE BLISS / BE HAPPIER
Are you happy? Be happy.
GET THE CANDY in life
Income - Income = Influence
@MFCEO
How To Be A Mother Fucking Baller
Show and Tell : Little Suzy / the DR and Billy / the Bible
Fat Andy: Mother Fucking Baller
3 Major Points
Make resistance your trigger for excellence
Be good to people
How to create the trigger
Bitch Voice v. Boss Voice
Test & Triumph - produces confidence & happiness
Love the TEST - Identify
Resistance will eventually become the trigger for excellence
Run the PLAY- Eliminate Excuses
The success story: The Chainsaw story no growth
Run the Play - no excuses
Magic is in the mindset: Boxing Glove Christmas story (btw, who one the fucking fight?)
Perform critical tasks with intent
Do the WORK with intent and purpose
Who do I want to become / Who will I become?
What am I trying to accomplish?
When to do this ... NOW
Being a BALLER is not always about the $$$
Fitness - Relationships - Spirituality - Family - Life . Combine it all up Baller
Don’t disrespect your competition
Life is Competition
Your competitors are doing things you are not - why are you NOT?
Presence and Performance
Powerful Results require FOCUS
Be intentional
E+E=D Empty + Extra = DOMINATION
You are trying to win, your competitors are fighting to DOMINATE you
Then... YOU should be trying and doing something EXTRA 1 MORE
RUN THE FUCKING PLAY
Champions know when to execute
CORE VALUE ASAP R4method (set them up scoville)
75hard - Course for everything
Become mentally tough - deal with the struggles -HOT COLD MINDSET
Bring it back to the office to DOMINATE
Be Conscious of your personal energy level
What is your personal example, change yourself and others will change with you
Value Standards: Recognition
Evaluate and make your VISION BIG enough for all to see
CREATE the CULTURE
Sell the future BIGGER
Tell the TEAM BIGGER
PUT IT ALL OUT THERE
Create the Space open the Space
What is the path to win the VISION aligning with CORE VALUES
Set the PATH for everyone to WIN
Making partners rich, will make you rich
Book Recommendation: Think Big and Kick Ass
Never miss the opportunity to sell something to your team
Be a promoter: DON KING - Steve Jobs
Believe it so Deeply
Develop Culture and communicate within it
Be Consistent (with good shit not bad shit) add value while doing it
ULTIMATE HIGH LEVEL EXCELLENCE: IN every FUCKING thing we do
Do you represent that?
Have AGREEMENTS to operate at a higher level
BOOK: SKILL WITH PEOPLE
Anytime you can talk to people in a group do it, no matter the size
We all work for the BOSS, the BOSS is our customers and clients
Miscellaneous Speaking Notes
ED: AM habits - visualization during work outs - realign chemistry -working out - best ideas begin to align
Get visualization mode while moving
Get yourself into that mindset - Get moving in the AM
Don’t check the Cell 1st thing in the AM- Read - Meditate - Get Clear
ANDY: Get angry - wake up pissed and angry - get to the Gym then get to work
Become grateful for your morning routines
Quote: They have to want my life - The Wolf of Wallstreet
Caught not Taught -look at your own example (Ed)
Do the work past the point you think it will work (Andy)
Bamboo Tree Story: (Andy) Plant the Bamboo- won’t sprout 5 years, in 8 weeks it will shoot up 80’ Show up Past the Empty
Be a TRUE judge of yourself, are you operating at 30% or 100%
Be honest with yourself
Acknowledge yourself-make yourself feel good/great about what you do
Mindset 100% we are ALL HERE
MAXOUT 100-0 Build self up is OK
Stand up for what makes you feel strong with yourself
Tell yourself the TRUTH
Have HUMILITY and PREPARATION
Sliding scale of maintaining...theme is to NOT maintain it is to consistently work to IMPROVE
You will either get better or you will get worse, get moving
Work on your identity
Talent exceed what you are worth - work on your internal game of worth
Always TEAM MEMERS - NOT EMPLOYEES
Develop Empathy and show it to others
Surround yourself with others that are different and on the PATH
Be the BEST in the World
If you have made it this far, thank you for paying attention. I did this for US not me...I did this to reflect upon and make changes in my life and others.
I look forward to connecting with each of you on our journeys.
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