Architects, Are You Building Your Business or Just Getting Burnt Out?

Hey Friends on LinkedIn,

As we come near the closing of 2024... it's time for a little truth bomb, served up with a side of solutions.

My work nowadays has led me to process more about the world of architecture lately and it's useful we hide nothing... it's a pressure cooker to practise... intricate project management, demanding clients – and somehow, you’re hoping to have a life outside of all that? It's no wonder architects are struggling to find that elusive work-life balance.

But, here’s the kicker: what if your biggest challenge isn't external pressures, but something a bit more… internal?

Yep, I’m talking about that inner critic – the one who loves to point out every flaw, every missed detail, every potential disaster. And let's not forget the "saboteur" who loves to make you procrastinate on important projects!

The good news?

There’s a way to manage these internal characters and boost your performance at the same time. And it all comes down to self-awareness. It can be your secret weapon.

Here’s the breakdown:

• Uncover your limiting beliefs: What assumptions are holding you back? It's time to shine a light on those blind spots.
• Meet your inner characters: That critic, the judge, even the pleaser – they are all running around in your head like little lego figures and messing up your carefully built lego model! Recognise them. Understand them.
• Master self-regulation: Don’t let your inner critic spiral you into panic mode. Learn to manage its impact.
• Redesign your internal blueprint: Use cognitive reframing to challenge those negative thoughts and replace them with more positive ones.
• Set boundaries that protect your time and energy: Remember, saying “no” to one thing is often saying “yes” to your well-being and creative energy.
• Practice mindfulness: Take a deep breath and bring yourself back to the present moment so you are not getting swept away by your emotions.

Why does this matter to you and even your business?

Well, self-awareness isn't just about "feeling good". It's about being a better leader, a more effective communicator, and a more resilient decision-maker.

Think of it this way:

When you're more self-aware, you can handle those difficult clients who change their minds all the time, by staying calm and asking clarifying questions to understand their needs, instead of reacting defensively. This can lead to more productive conversations and better solutions. And that certainly include financial aspects too.

It's like redesigning your internal blueprint, replacing those weak foundations with something stronger.

I call this #UnfairAdvantage. Something you have to gift to yourself, and it does not work if others hand it to you.

Here's the call to action:

Before 2025 arrives, take a moment this week to reflect. What internal voices are you listening to? And how are they affecting your work, your creativity, and your well-being? What small change could you make to start cultivating more inner awareness?

This isn't just about surviving in business, it’s about thriving. It’s about designing not just buildings, but also your life and the culture of your workplace. Use the end of 2024 as an excuse even!

My call out to get your feedback so I can support the community/fraternity better

What’s your biggest struggle right now? What will you change to build a better foundation?

This survey is the my tool to hear you. It will be 3-5 mins max, and I will deeply appreciate it. Thank you in advance.

https://links.happierarchitects.com/survey-ahadeepdive

Lastly...

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