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      (For the guys only)

I love harmony, peace and happiness. Wherever these are found, I am always close by either physically or in the spirit (wink). This is the more reason why I will fight to the death on your behalf to make sure your relationship and or marriage thrives in bliss.

For that guy or husband who is at the verge of throwing in the towel because you can no longer bear the frustration by your lady or wife. You so much love her but;

a.      She is too hot headed

b.     Too demanding beyond what your tiny pocket can offer

c.      She is very haughty and does not regard you

d.     It’s obvious you are not the only one

e.      She is too skeptical and conservative and doesn’t trust you

f.      She is taking the advantage of the fact that you are scared of losing her to maltreat you

g.     She doesn’t love you anymore, she wants divorce or break up

h.     She is tired and fed up because of your past ill manner treatment. She won’t just believe that you have changed and ready to be prince charming again

i.       You were a woman beater and now regretted your actions but she won’t just give you second chance

j.       She caught you right in the act and she called it quit.

If your situation is suffering from any of the above listed, you may at least take a peep at the recipe below. Who knows? It may just work.

1.     YOU LOVE HER BUT SHE IS TOO HOT HEADED.

61% of the average ladies in the world between the ages of 20 to 26 are hot headed. ‘Hot headed’ by definition in this context means easily flared, not calm, adamant and not easily receptive.

Consider these conversations of two pairs

Pair one (A &B)

A: Dave what is the meaning of that rubbish! I told you never to call me whenever I was in the office

B: For heaven sake! I am your (husband/fiancé/boyfriend) I should call you whenever I wanted

A: Oh spare me Dave! Who cares if you are the King? Why are you so annoying and pretending to be dumb?

B: How dare you!

A: Go to hell. I am sick of you

B: Oh well, go burn

A: Really! You’r such a fool, this relationship is over!!

                        Two months later

B: Baby, I am sorry, please come back home

A: I’m sorry Dave, I loved you and you are a nice guy. I didn’t know what came over me. Now it’s too late. I am with someone else now and I think he is cool too

                                   Pair two (Q & Z)

Q: James! James! James! How dare you put a call through when I was at the office?  What is with you! Can’t you abide by simple instruction? Why are you so stubborn and annoying?

Z: (Staring at her saying no words yet)

Q: what? Why are you staring like that?

Z: baby when did you start packing your hair in this manner? My God you look more splendid and adoring. You know I feel like starting all over again.

Q: You are such a nerd. Meaning I was saying nothing?

Z: A moment without you dearie is like eternity in hell. I couldn’t bear the torment anymore, so i put a call through, just a call baby. But really if you hate it so much, I cross my heart, I will stop.

Q: What don’t you joke about (calmly). I should be in my room

                       TWO HOURS LATER

Z: (Knocks) Baby it’s me. It seems you are a little bit tired. Guess I will just go for the party alone. Don’t worry, just rest. I love you

Q: (Rushes out and speaks calmly) you really want to go without your love?

Z: How dare me! I should be punished! How on earth will I survive without my breath?

Q: (embraces him warmly) I am sorry the way I spoke to you the other time. That was bad of me. I don’t know what came over me. I had a bad day with my boss and…

Z: shhhhh, you are long forgiven before the offence committed.

Now, someone may want to say, it is Nollywood and it doesn’t just go that smooth in real life. The guy also has emotion and may also lose his cool.

Well, you don’t wait until you lose your cool, pick up your shirt and take a walk if the heat is getting thickened.

Point:  Never engage yourself in heated argument whenever your lady is ‘on’ especially the one you love. She will always come back. As time progresses when she’s in happy mood again, counsel her. With time she will change.

 

2.     TOO MONEY DEMANDING BEYOND WHAT YOUR POCKET CAN HANDLE

This problem is mostly common in relationships other than marriages. The truth is, most guys make mistake from the very beginning. You are trying to woo a lady and you have already spent beyond reasonableness.

This is the shocker; Ladies never genuinely fall in love with guys who put their money first before personality when trying to woo them. An average lady will conclude that you want to buy her love and pride with money. She would rather go for that man who perhaps doesn’t have much but with great sense of humor and attraction, personality and sincerity. A lady friend of mine once asked me why I haven’t called her in days. I simply replied ‘because I was dead broke, I couldn’t afford airtime.’ She laughed like I just cracked a joke and later responded, ‘this is why I like you so much – your sincerity…’

Some ladies will stay with you to be financially comfortable. Some will even go extra miles to collecting from you and helping out their true love pending when he gains total financial freedom, then you are dumped for good. Some will only remain as soon as the money remains

Now, if for some reasons, you find yourself in this mess as an innocent guy who loves genuinely but thought money should be the root of such love. As time progresses in the relationship, you don’t have savings anymore, you are crashing gradually and you just can’t afford to let her go because of the love or bond. Now she is threatening to leave. Be sincere with her, don’t go on borrowing. Be man enough to tell her you don’t have and make her see reasons. If she loves you, she will stay. If she goes, be man enough to let her go. That relationship can yield all but happiness and fulfillment. And remember, I am only after your happiness.

Pointer:

1.     when you meet a lady and she demands while you are still ‘strangers’, beware

2.     A lady who is more conscious of her hairdo and perfumes and taking such as priority may end up assisting your drought to come speedily

3.     She believes she is your entire responsibility, you have to think again

Point: Never throw money first in the journey of wooing a lady you truly love, no matter how wealthy you may be – not to say you shouldn’t spend, howbeit, spend wisely and best minimally.

 

TO BE CONTINUED SHORTLY.

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