Announcement & Getting Your Needs Met

I have something super exciting for you this month.

But before I share, I wanted to also share this insight I’ve had in the past couple of years:

One of the biggest AHA moments I see with my clients (and what I had myself) is when they recognise that what they WANT and what they NEED are two very different things.

And typically, most of us end up getting into long term relationships with what we want…

…and having no clue what we need.

This is where things start to fall apart, years down the line.

Why?

Because what you WANT is typically a desire that’s fuelled by your ego.

It’s what you’ve grown up wanting, what you’ve been conditioned to believe is good for you.

What you aspire to.

It’s what your parents wanted for you, what your society tells you to want, what your culture dictates.

It’s what you think you should want.

And that, unfortunately, is very rarely what’s going to actually make you happy long term.

Because it’s disconnected from your true self, from your authentic core, from your deep heart.

For example, I hear ALL the time from incredible high achieving women that I work with, that they want (or wanted) a 6”3+ man who works in finance, has a great body, loves to spend money on them, has his finances and wealth in order, and can take the lead.

You want a good sense of humour, similar values in life, and a healthy dose of ambition.?

Mmm. Heck, I get this.

I wanted this too.

And you can have that pretty easily. You can even marry it, settle down and have that relationship.

Thing is - all of these qualifiers are just proxies.?

Same thing with men.

I come across men that want the petite, attractive brunette with a great figure, a killer ability to cook, some passion, and ability to hold a good conversation. ?

Great, go ahead and find that, get married, and set up your family.

But...longer term:

Is he going to respect your career?

Is he going to be someone you can trust to be by your side when the going gets tough? When your parents die? When health issues become a thing?

Is she going to be by your side at your most vulnerable hour later down the line?

Is she going to be someone to nurture your business with, to support your career, to have your back and get your needs entirely?

Height, looks, wealth, sense of humour, values, and common interests…sure they can be nice, but they aren’t what you NEED.

What you need there is likely deeper.

A deeper, more vulnerable yearning.

From the heart.?

And you probably don't know what that is because it’s not something you’ve been taught to look at.

No one ever asked you.

And you will likely have a TON of deep, core, vulnerable needs within you that you’re aching to feel fulfilled…

…but because of the way our society is set up, you’re skimming the surface.

Talking about values and your love of the same series on TV.

Instead, when you discover what you NEED...you can have THE most fulfilling relationship of your dreams.

• You can feel deliciously full, happy, and energised every single day...because you're getting your TRUE needs met.
• You can feel excited for life, and the direction it's heading in.
• You can feel safe, full of self-trust, trust for your partner, and confident in what you're doing.

Life is so, so much better when you are with what you need.

So to that end, I have something exciting for you.

This July 25th at 5pm GMT, 6pm CET, 12pm EST, and 9am PST…

I am hosting a Masterclass.

A totally new one.

This one is aimed at folks IN relationships.

Those of you who are partnered and maybe feeling a bit off.

Maybe you’re unsure about whether your needs/wants are reasonable…

Maybe you’re feeling a bit stuck with your relationship and unsure which direction it’s going in…

Maybe you’re feeling a bit trapped, or anxious, or like you’re walking on eggshells…

Maybe you’re afraid that you’ve grown apart with your partner.

In this Masterclass, aimed at women but open to all sexes, I’ll be talking about how the Behavioral Science of Attraction relates to your problems, and what you need to do to get the clarity and certainty you’re seeking to transform your situation.

For the better.?

So if you want to transform your relationships…

Watch the Masterclass on the July 25th!

You can register here: https://programs.katarinapolonska.com/SILO

There are also 2 gifts for those of you that attend live.

Because you really don't want to waste another hour, week, month, or year feeling bad about yourself, your relationship, and the direction your life is going in.

You really don't deserve to keep feeling stuck.

You really don't deserve to keep feeling full of self-doubt.

So register here for the Masterclass on the 25th of July.