Analyse the lessons learnt, don't just turn the page
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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When Galileo told that the earth moves around the sun, no one was ready to believe, because at that time everyone felt that he was wrong and people wanted to kill him. Everyone knew that Earth was fixed and sun revolved around the earth, which was later proved wrong . Galileo was considered as a mad man all his life. The poor chap got all the recognition after his death. Even today all our textbooks are full with works of Galileo but this a life's lesson that some times people don't appreciate the value of our statements and discover them later to be right.
However, you can't do much about others but can make Galileo your role model. Not only him, Abraham Lincoln was unable to win even a local election, all his life he failed in whatever he did. He failed more than us for sure and see one day he became the president of US. It was not luck but hard work.
When some one says "I am waiting for the perfect moment" tell them that there is nothing called perfect moment. Try to get the maximum out of whatever you have. Minimize Procrastination, and never wait for the perfect moment. Life happens when we wait for the perfect moment. I don't have zeal to learn- Larry Page invented Google and it became a dream company for many people. He just followed his passion. May be he was also not having the zeal to learn or work on the traditional subjects. So he created something new.
It will not always work out but follow your heart and chase your dreams as they are worth it. There is nothing which can't work out even when the idea looks ridiculous to others. The key is that you must believe in the idea, that’s it. Our problems are not as difficult as it seems to us. Let me support this with justification.
Do time travel to your childhood and you would find that your biggest problems were doing homework, taking permission from Mom to go out to Play, Get a Candy, etc. Are they significant today? Of course not. You will love to remember all those problems and it will make you smile. Similarly, 20 years down the line it will hardly matter if you got a plum job after college or you are jobless, if you have a gf/bf or not in college, if you have failed in the exams or have topped it. Meet me after 20 years and we will discuss your current problems over coffee.
You often hear from some people "I am Good for Nothing" but we need to tell them that everything in this universe is for some purpose. Even the stone at the top of the mountain has some purpose. We are humans; maybe we have done something good in our previous lives and hence have been rewarded. So, never believe that you are Good for Nothing.
Everyone has a different role to play that is why a crocodile cannot fly and butterfly cannot swim. We can't expect everything for everyone, but there is no point for the crocodile to feel bad that he cannot fly or the butterfly to feel bad for not being able to swim. Doesn't it makes sense. Same is with all of us. We just need to identify things which makes us happy.
Why say "I have wasted X years of my life doing nothing"- We feel that we have wasted our life but you know, nothing is wasted in this world. Do you know the story of bamboo tree? It doesn’t show sign of growth in first four- five years. But, in the next one year it will grow rapidly. Now, the reality is that the growth doesn't occur only in one year, it happens over a period of 5-6 years. Take motivation from the Bamboo tree and have patience till things happen on their own because universe has set timing for everything to happen in your life.
It is the time when we figure out what we want to do in life. Whether we would like to startup a company or we would like to work for a MNC or a small upcoming company. It is not just about the degree you will earn. Life is all about People. So, wherever you go value people. Respect them, add value to their life through your association. I am trying to add value for those who are reading this. Thank you for being patient to read me.
Network is the need now-a-days, it is more important that whom you know. It is not about buttering or greasing someone's palm. I am bad at networking because I considered this as bad. How stupid I was? It is the best thing you can do for yourself. Positive Attitude- Once a CEO asked two people whether they can do a job. It was an impossible task that the CEO was entrusting on them. The First person was honest about his feelings and told that it is not possible to get it done in the given time.
The CEO called another person and asked the same question. He answered that although it seems difficult but I am sure that I can do it with your support. The CEO nodded in affirmation. The second person asked for more resources and more authority to get the work done. The CEO agreed. Later, the second person really get that work done and the CEO informed everyone that the second person was having a Positive attitude and hence he trusted him more than the first one.
There is no fun in life if we are seriously unwell. All money we have accumulated in our life also fails to get back our health. Think less is more because life is all about quality not quantity. You are lucky even if you have few true friends as when the adversities come then you got to know who are your true friends. Work hard Party Harder- No matter how hard you are working, always find some time to do things that makes you happy. Cultivate good Hobbies- A person who has a hobby is never alone. I love reading books, writing and analyzing difficult situations and these habits I have developed in the college. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #posssessedbywritingspirit
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4 年Thank you Dear Friend Benjamine for this kindness, stay blessed
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4 年Thank you so much for sharing this powerful and meaningful post Kishore, I feel really grateful for having a wise and inspiring person like you in my LinkedIn network. Have a great weekend!