Amplifying Success Through Inclusive Accommodations
I vividly remember waking up in the hospital, surrounded by tubes, machines, and my family. My whole family – all of them there with me. Let that sink in for a moment.
After the initial flood of overwhelming emotion, my first conscious thought, despite the struggle, was to ask, “Do work know I won’t be in today?” Then, someone – whether it was my mum, my uncle, or cousin – gently said, “Rich, it’s June.”
Six weeks. I had been in a coma for six weeks.
I had suffered serious injuries: a broken jaw, perforated eardrums, and severe brain bleed trauma. In that state, everything felt impossible. There’s something deeply humbling about being a 31-year-old man, proud and independent, now lying in a hospital bed, physically helpless and unable to speak or even drink water because of a tracheotomy.
That was rock bottom for me. But looking back now, I realise it was also the beginning of my second life – a life that taught me more about strength, vulnerability, and resilience than I could have ever understood before.
I know I wouldn’t be where I am today without the unwavering support of my family and friends. Although we weren’t the closest family, they showed up every day. And my friends – some of whom I hadn’t seen since school – came to visit me every day I was conscious.
During that time, I made a decision, one that I carry with me every day: I am alive, and I have the opportunity to become the person who is worthy of the support I’ve received. That shift in mindset, that focus on positivity, transformed my life in ways I could never have imagined.
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I had to dig deep and learn what I could truly influence through discipline and consistent effort. There were things I simply couldn’t change: the effects of brain damage, which brought daily challenges with coordination, memory, concentration, and emotions. I couldn’t pretend that I wasn’t diagnosed with post-traumatic epilepsy as a result of the injury – and the medication I take causes severe fatigue. I couldn’t undo the permanent hearing loss or change the fact that my tracheotomy had narrowed my windpipe by 20mm.
So, every day, every word I spoke, and every movement I made required immense effort and careful thought – just to breathe, just to make sure I had enough oxygen to keep going. But through that struggle, I learned the power of focus and perseverance. Even in the face of things beyond my control, I found there was always something within me that I could shape.
Living a healthy life now requires certain accommodations and adjustments, and these have become an essential part of my routine. These aren’t choices – they’re necessary steps to help me function every day. A balanced, nutritious diet helps me maximise my cognitive abilities. Resistance training helps maintain my dexterity. I’ve even convinced my wife that a few hours on the PlayStation is “medicinal” – it’s all part of my recovery!
I wear hearing aids to help connect externally, and use AI-driven notes on my iPad to make my handwriting legible. Sleep – and more sleep – is essential to keeping me balanced. A few years ago, I underwent a full tracheal resection. It was intense, and honestly, having my chin stitched to my chest for two weeks wasn’t exactly fun. But the outcome was life-changing: I can breathe again!
Life is like an old phone battery that only operates at 75% capacity despite needing 100% of its power – every day takes full focus and effort. When I feel fine, there are still humbling moments that remind me of my situation. Like when I rip a shirt just by putting it on, or fall for no apparent reason when putting on my shoes. Or especially when I find myself repeating myself or struggling to find the right word mid-sentence.
But with the support of workplace accommodations, I’m able to conserve enough energy to be present for my family and maintain a successful career. As an employee, 英国电信集团 has played a huge role in helping me manage this in the workplace – they allow me the time I need to process information before making decisions. They understand that sometimes, I need to work from home. Even small things I never would have thought would help, like avoiding cognitively demanding meetings late in the day or having captions on Teams calls, make a big difference.
These small adjustments – they aren’t just about helping me survive; they’re about allowing me to be present as a dad, a productive employee, and an empowering manager. Working for BT has given me the opportunity to do more than just get by. It’s given me the chance to truly thrive.
Partnerships Consultant at Northcoders
2 周Thanks for sharing Rich ??
Talent Acquisition Professional at BT
3 周you're a legend, Rich! Thanks for sharing.
Early Careers Professional
3 周So proud of you Rich, so beautifully written! Very lucky to work with you.
Senior Talent Acquisition Partner
3 周Great article Rich. Says so much about you as a person that you don’t allow it to affect your work and still thrive mate.
Talent Acquisition Manager | Talent Attraction and Acquisition Professional | Strategic Recruiter | Global Recruitment Manager | Passionate about building and growing teams
3 周Really inspiring story Rich Hales! Thanks for sharing with us all! Eye opening really!