Are Americans Still Worth Dying For?

As I sit down to ponder this question, I ask you, dear reader, are you worth someone else dying for? Is your liberty, your safety, your way of life worth the ultimate sacrifice? As an American, I can't help but reflect on the values that have made this nation great. Values that my husband, nearing retirement from 20 years in the Army Special Operations Forces (SOF) and transitioning to law enforcement, has sworn to defend with his life.

I vividly recall a moment during our engagement photoshoot when a woman hurled accusations at him, questioning if he had killed babies and committing other atrocities. It was a stark reminder of the misconceptions and misunderstandings that often surround those who serve in the military or law enforcement. While I didn't face such hostility during my own time in the service, it's a reminder of the challenges faced by those who dedicate their lives to protecting our freedoms.

In the wake of two decades at war, I've witnessed a shift in the public's perception of service members. There's a growing recognition and appreciation for their sacrifices, but I can't help but wonder if the same sentiment extends to those in law enforcement. My husband's transition from the battlefield to the streets only amplifies these concerns. Will those he serves and protects truly honor his sacrifice if the unthinkable were to happen?

I think about the core values that I believe underpin American society:

• Self, Family, Community: At the heart of American identity lies a commitment to selflessness, familial bonds, and community spirit. It's the willingness to put the needs of others before our own, to stand up for what's right even when it's difficult, and to forge connections that transcend individual interests. Yet, in an era of increasing individualism and polarization, these core values are sometimes overshadowed by self-interest and division, challenging our sense of collective worthiness.
• Hard Work and Doing Hard Things: America's success story is built on the bedrock of hard work and perseverance. From the pioneers who braved the untamed wilderness to the immigrants who sought a better life on distant shores, Americans have never shied away from doing what's necessary, even when it's uncomfortable or daunting. Yet, in a society that often seeks instant gratification and comfort, the willingness to tackle the tough issues head-on and confront uncomfortable truths is sometimes lacking, testing our resolve and sense of worthiness.
• Contribution: True worthiness is measured not just by what we achieve for ourselves, but by the contributions we make to the greater good. Whether it's serving in the military, volunteering in our communities, or advocating for positive change, every act of contribution helps to strengthen the fabric of society and uphold the values we hold dear. Yet, in an age of apathy and indifference, where cynicism and distrust often overshadow optimism and altruism, our collective sense of worthiness is put to the test.

As a military spouse and veteran, I have one foot in the military world and the other in the civilian world. When I look around I see a lot of commitment to these core values carried by the same small percentage of men and women (and their children) year after year. The same families.??

And so, as I contemplate the question once more… Are Americans still worth dying for? I don’t know, but I know America is. I believe America is bigger than just its citizens alive today. And more importantly, I know those who serve, and serve & protect will do so without judging worthiness. I know they will put on their uniforms and answer the call of duty because of who they are regardless of who you are.?

We are damn lucky to have them.?