Always choose love over everything else

Before getting in to any further detail in this statement, I would like to make a couple of assumptions on the situation. You or for that matter even me or anyone else who is reading this are a reader which says that you are well educated at least in the lines of graduation and when you say career, I see it as job/business which is intended for earning bread butter for you and dependents. When you say love here, you are seriously committed for a long term relationship and looking forward for a very happy married with your love and not just for having fun for sometime and then move on with someone else.

Let me start off with what serious love means to me. Love is a eternal feeling where you are emotionally attached to someone and you know how beautiful life you both would lead together after marriage. No one can replace that position of your lover at least, you will fell so when are deeply in love with someone. You both know very well about each other, you both are well aware of the mutual interests, differences. You know how to make him/her happy, how to handle his/her emotions, how to console him/her when going through tough times. To simply put, u perfectly know how to look after him/her as your prince or princess. You will enjoy the company of your love.

You will always feel like to share things and always wanting to be in touch with your love via calls/messaging. The very thought of getting apart from your love pushes your mood off. You feel very care and concern for him/her no matter the miles between you, if in a long distance relationship. Possessiveness and jealous of male/female friend of her/him are part and parcel of love. u spend most of the time in the happy thoughts(blushing at times) abut your love. Rest of the things(other friends, pleasures etc) take a back seat when it comes to priority with love.

Now the other part is of course your own career. For me, Career is all that you build upon the graduate degrees you earn, hereditary family business etc. which is meant for a happy living and social status. I hope, you will agree that you are not an Engineer/Doctor/IAS etc by birth. You have rightly chosen that path because all your elders have done so, your parents/family pushed you for that profession and in very less cases you are actually interested or inspired by someone to follow that path. For the majority, career is all about making money to earn their living.

That career you pursue may be for 8-10 hrs a day and may be for about 30-35 years and majorly for money making. The rest of the life is all about with your love and family you grow up. There are multiple ways to earn money and you can always excel in the path you choose if you have proper vision and encouragement from your love/family.

And I agree that, it may take a bit longer time in earning the desired money part if chosen love over the so called well torn career path.But, but money is not everything in life. There are multiple career avenues to choose from, if not one then the other. Same is not the case with love. It is very tough to have heart felt feelings for someone and when you get that special someone in your life, will you let go off that partner for some monetary reasons.