To be alive with purpose do 7 things to discover true meaning.

There are many misconceptions about “finding purpose”.?

Purpose isn’t something we find, we create it.

It’s a process of self-discovery that requires imagination, creativity, struggle, passion, satisfaction and adversity.

Many people believe purpose is a singular thing.? Something we find.? Something we can clearly identify.? Some can.? Most can’t and never do.?

Purpose is multi-dimensional and something most people can’t define or clearly articulate.? That includes most leaders.

A Harvard study revealed only 20% of thousands of top CEOs interviewed could “name” their purpose.

Another misconception about purpose is that it remains "constant".

Purpose can change and I would argue it should change if we are constantly growing.??

Being open to the possibility of enjoying a variety of “purposes” provides us with a license to experiment and explore.?

A prerequisite of creating purpose is the ability to adapt and remain flexible.

When people believe purpose is something “they find”, life is wasted waiting for an epiphany that provides permission to finally be happy.

“The two most important days in life are the day you born and the day you discover the reason why.” – Mark Twain

To be alive with purpose do 7 things to discover true meaning:

Crowd

Most people blindly leap into the latest advice and toss around fashionable ideas that seem rational.? The problem is that few people truly examine the efficacy of these “ideas’ and spend their entire life “following the crowd”.? As a result, our purpose becomes a series of “formulas” that seem to make sense but have little personal application.? Resist following the crowd and we quickly discover what makes us genuinely happy.? The only certainty about following the crowd is that many will get lost together.

Action

The best way to get serious about cultivating purpose is to act.? Many people get stuck in a perpetual state of “searching”, which includes countless books and endless seminars.? When I decided to write my first book, I started writing.? I had never written a book before, now I write every day.? Being a writer is part of my purpose and its part of a bigger purpose that inspires my work.? Act and you will find true purpose.??

Pain

We need to be honest with ourselves and appreciate the enormity of making big dreams a reality.? Without an honest appraisal of our ability to succeed at something, we get trapped in wishful thinking that creates frustration.? Believing you will enjoy every step of your arduous journey is unrealistic.? Big dreams take hard work, sacrifice, and lots of rejection.? Most people just assume “finding purpose” makes the pain disappear.? Pain is always part of the process of finding grater purpose.???

“Musicians must make music, artists must paint, poets must write if they are to ultimately be at peace with themselves. What human beings can be; they must be.” – Abraham Maslow

Support

Having a strong support system is essential for success.? Family, friends, or business associates can help us stay focused when our dream becomes overwhelming.? In addition, I believe cultivating purpose requires supporting other people in their pilgrimage.? Adding value to other people opens the gates of love, kindness, and reciprocity.? The benefits of giving are essential for developing greater purpose.

Discipline

The cult of finding purpose makes purpose appear magical.? The assumption, when you find it, life gets easy!? Life never gets easy so let’s stop being naive.? Without discipline and an accurate appreciation of hard work, purpose remains elusive.? When I set off to build my business 36 years ago, I was committed to the pain and struggle of being an entrepreneur.? I had an idea that I believed in, and the discipline to create a life of financial freedom and flexibility over my schedule.? Purpose emerges when we develop the required to do the hard work necessary for success.??? ??

Courage

Cultivating purpose takes courage because we will need to do what most people refuse to do.? Most people spend their lives looking for “short cuts” or “hacks” to expedite success.? Having the courage to break away from the crowd and be true to ourselves will get lonely.? Without the courage to “be alone”, we will put more emphasis on “fitting in”.?? Being successful takes courage and it requires being comfortable alone.?? ??

Explore

We need to have an adventurous heart if we hope to cultivate purpose.? It’s hard to discover the things that ignite passion if we don’t embrace new ideas, learn new things and meet extraordinary people that expose us to interesting ideas.? Having a curious mind and inventive spirit helps make cultivating purpose more palatable.

“Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.” – Les Brown

Sum it up.

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About Steve:

Steve Wohlenhaus is CEO of Weatherology, the leading company in the world at disseminating audio weather information.?? Steve began his career as a major market television weather anchor in Minneapolis, where he received several Emmy Awards for science programming.? Steve is an author and host of the podcast program Anatomy of Success.? Reach out and connect with me on LinkedIn.? Learn more about my work and grab the free Weatherology mobile app by clicking any picture in this article!