The Alchemy of Leadership is Bouncing Back from Mistakes

Life is about evolving! Mistakes teach us what doesn’t work and encourages us to create new ways of thinking and doing.

Star Leadership isn’t about avoiding mistakes but learning to turn them into your greatest growth opportunities. Do you recollect a day when everyone seemed super annoying, everything seemed innately stupid, and fun was merely a word in the dictionary? Those are the days when leaders have to be super patient with not just others, but more importantly, with themselves. Leaders ought to learn it is okay to not be okay!

Our greatest fear is often not making a mistake, but acknowledging it. Mistakes, however, are inevitable—they’re the stepping stones to growth. How do you, as a leader, become more vulnerable? It means having an open, rather than a fixed mindset, reflecting the belief that you can always do better.

Star Leaders need Self-care too

Dispel the myth that leaders are superhuman and never experience pressure or anxiety. To serve as an example of self-care for employees down the line:

• Put those sentiments of weakness into words.
• Share your experiences, obstacles, and struggles.
• Make an effort to maintain your mental health.

Letting people know you're taking a day off to recharge your mind will encourage others to do the same. This will not only build trust but also enhance your leadership presence.

Transform your Outlook

Mistakes are not failures—they are feedback. A Star CXO takes lessons from setbacks and uses them to drive improvement. Vulnerability becomes a strength when you admit your shortcomings and use them as a foundation for growth. Research by the Harvard Business Review shows that leaders who practice vulnerability are 15% more likely to drive innovation and 20% more likely to retain top talent.

Heal thyself and lead from heart

Without self-love and the capacity to control your emotions, you may mistakenly lead from hurt rather than from the heart. Mistakes are a part of growth, but your response to them is what shapes your presence as a leader. So, awaken your self-worth gap, humiliation, and hurt. Being vulnerable means telling those who deserve to know about your thoughts and feelings. Mutual vulnerability and openness are essential.

Impact on Leadership

A star leader may be cognizant of the fact that negative emotions can affect workplace presence and should be taken care of. A star leader, however, goes a step forward in realizing that feeling bad or low is actually natural. Research in fact shows that top-quality authenticity is beyond being okay with negative emotions being there and actively admitting that you have weaknesses, needs and are perpetually haunted by the same desires all of us universally face. This is the essence of star leadership.

Star Mindset

Star leaders have the capacity to be both stern and effective while still being real and emotionally open. Being open and vulnerable at work, it turns out, isn't a liability; it's an armor. Let your imperfections shine while you unwind, take a big breath, and relax.

3 Immediately Applicable Action Steps

1.Allow yourself 4 days a month where you do not put a lot of effort into work, and are okay with the idea that you are doing less than usual.

2.Actively voice the fact that you are having a difficult day when it feels so.

3.When you feel that you’re too low someday, plan how you will make up for time lost in the following days.

Conclusion

Mistakes are not the end—they are the beginning of growth. Leaders who approach setbacks with vulnerability and resilience build trust, inspire innovation, and cultivate a thriving team culture. By focusing on presence, learning from errors, and leading with authenticity, you can transform challenges into opportunities for greatness. Remember, Star Leadership is not about being perfect—it’s about being human, learning, and inspiring others to do the same. #BeTheStar

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Disclaimer - The views expressed in this article are Rakesh’s alone and do not reflect the views of his employer.

Co-Author: Coach Vikram is an Executive Presence Coach who helps CXOs and senior leaders to inspire and lead with impact. He works with senior leaders to enhance their emotions, helping them showcase their real authentic self.? Connect with him to elevate your executive presence skills and transform your leadership journey.

References

●Smith, D. (2021, November 5). You Made a Big Mistake at Work. What Should You Do? Harvard Business Review. Retrieved July 19, 2022, from https://hbr.org/2021/11/you-made-a-big-mistake-at-work-what-should-you-do

●Rogacka, O. (2020, August 27). 12 Leadership Stories: Mistakes and Lessons Learned. Success by LiveChat. https://www.livechat.com/success/stories-from-leaders-mistakes-lessons-learned/

●10 Examples of Great Leaders Admitting Their Mistakes. Melbado.Com. https://www.livechat.com/success/stories-from-leaders-mistakes-lessons-learned/

●Gustavo Razzetti. (2018, March 5). How to Stop Playing the Blame Game | By Gustavo Razzetti. Fearlessculture. Retrieved July 19, 2022, from https://www.fearlessculture.design/blog-posts/how-to-stop-playing-the-blame-game

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