Adopting a code of silence

Adopting a code of silence

“Always avoid talking about religion and politics in public.” cautioned my mother.?This week I discovered she was right.

I posted on Facebook, what I thought was a simple newspaper article on how wearing masks should be like wearing seat belts and part of our civic responsibility.

Little did I know that I was going to trigger an onslaught of angry comments.??Not wanting to get drawn into a social media fight, I remarked that we could perhaps agree to disagree and show respect.

Eh, no.?The writers were determined to make me see the light, to adopt their point of view, after all there was only “one truth” which of course was their truth.

I closed down the discussion and removed the post.

But it flags for me how angry people are and just how polarized as a country we are.?I find that scary and it makes me question where, as a country, we are heading.?

All of us are fed up with the pandemic, the masks, the lockdowns but frankly what is the alternative if we are to stay safe?

Blaming our political leaders isn’t the answer.?When you look around the world, other countries are doing the same.?We can’t just get rid of the messengers because we don’t like the message.??

I am not sure what the answer is, but a return to civility and treating people with respect, whether you agree with their views or not, would be a good place to start.

There I’ve said my piece.?For now on, I am keeping my political thoughts to myself.








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Janneke G.

RPN in LTC/Practicum Clinician/Respite Provider

3 年

It's sad not being able to share opinions as that is what makes us better together. I've learned to see peoples opinions as their interpretation of the info they have been exposed to and see that we're all exposed to different info at times. Helps me understand different opinions better.

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Sue Dallhoff

President at Strategic Leverage Partners Inc. with expertise in board effectiveness, strategic planning and advisory services

3 年

I agree, Anne Day, that return to civility and treating people with respect would be a good place to start! I have always thought that how we respond to someone else's thoughts is good barometer of our character.

Nicole McKinnon

Sr Business Systems Analyst (BSA/BA) | Relationship Builder | Project Manager | Critical Thinker | Puzzle Solver | Dog lover

3 年

My mom shared the same caution with me when I started working … back when I was young and idealized I took a lot of what she said as near gospel. While I’ve aged & removed the rose coloured glasses I still try to employ those words of wisdom.

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