Adjust Your Viewfinder, Be A Winner Than A Wanter

ABOUT EXPECTATIONS: In any relationship it's smarter when you have expectations and you want your friend, boss, spouse, parent or even assistant to come up to them, to instead adjust your expectations than the person! whatever it is your personal requirement hankers for can be attained with by someone else- than to push a person to fit your bill!

Life is about adjusting ones vision, not adjusting people to your vision!

Sometimes we just end up trusting some people who turn out to be a let downs. Don't bash yourself on the head for it, or feel guilt- it is beautiful to trust & not grow cynical. Let go or adjust your viewfinder, enjoy what you get out of any equation or then enjoy a new journey of discovery totally anew with someone better and more worthy of your valuable time and energy.

And yes, guilt is corrosive and moving onward with renewed energy is fabulous. Remember-life is about new and different experiences! Enjoy all these experiences that grow up the vulnerable you, make you a stronger version of you! Because they make you into the beautiful person you are growing into............

Take what is good and ignore the not so good, move on and seek your comfort also from other avenues! Look for fun times and happy moments from many areas, don't invest your all into one basket please ;)