ADHD-venture: Advocating with Focus, Flourish, and a Few Fumbles!

Introduction

As someone navigating ADHD, profound deafness, and high-level anxiety, life often feels like a roller coaster with an extra loop or two. While my cochlear implants help me hear the world, my ADHD keeps me hyper-focused on the most unexpected things. But here’s the twist: I’ve learned to see my “challenges” as superpowers. As a retired special education teacher and now assistant director of academic support in a post-secondary college setting, I’ve turned these traits into tools for success. Trust me, there have been some laugh-out-loud moments (like when I spent three hours locked into a meeting that ended long before I realized it… Classic hyperfocus move, right?).

ADHD is a whirlwind of sudden epiphanies, random distractions, and passion-fueled focus. It’s not always easy, but embracing your quirks and advocating for yourself becomes your superpower. Self-advocacy is essential to success in School, college, or the workforce. So, let’s turn the ADHD fumbles into flourishes and learn to advocate like pros!

Advocating for Yourself: School, College, and Employment

Secondary Education

Navigating Schools with ADHD can feel like being in a busy cafeteria with a buzzing neon sign flashing, "distractions here!" But advocating for yourself is like flipping that sign to "superpowers engaged."

• Know What You Need: First, determine the accommodations that help you thrive. Extra time on tests? Noise-canceling headphones? If it’s going to help you excel, make it a priority.
• Speak Up Early: Advocating isn't a last-minute sprint! Let your teachers and school support staff know what you need at the start of the semester. Think of it as setting up your future success story.
• Use Your IEP or 504 Plan: These aren't just pieces of paper. They’re lifelines. Know your accommodations and make sure they're in play. Don't hesitate to ask for reviews or updates if something isn’t working.

Post-Secondary College

College is an all-new ballgame; advocating for yourself is like navigating a new maze of buildings, people, and syllabi. But here’s the thing: Colleges are packed with resources to help you succeed—you need to tap into them.

• Meet with Disability Services: Your college has a disability services office for a reason. Meet with them early to set up the accommodations that will work for you, whether extended test time, note-taking support, or deadline flexibility.
• Communicate with Professors: Transparency is key. Professors may not always know what you need unless you tell them. You might start the conversation with something like: “I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and sometimes struggle with lengthy lectures. Could I access lecture notes or slides in advance to help me stay on track?”
• Join Support Groups: You’re not alone! College ADHD support groups or clubs are great places to share strategies and feel seen. It’s like having a brain trust of people who understand how your mind works.

In the Workplace

The workplace can be where ADHD shines—if you know how to harness it. Whether it's hyperfocus or thinking outside the box, employers often value the very traits ADHD gives you. The trick is knowing when to let your superpowers fly and when to ask for help.

• Understand Your Strengths: ADHD gives you unique strengths—creativity, quick thinking, and hyperfocus—that employers value. Emphasize these when sharing your skills.
• Ask for Accommodations: Whether it’s flexible hours, a quiet workspace, or regular feedback, don’t hesitate to ask what you need to do your best work.
• Own Your Challenges: Being upfront about what’s tough for you (in a positive light!) shows self-awareness. Say something like, “I thrive with clear deadlines and regular check-ins. This keeps me on track and helps me stay organized.”

Sentence Starters for Self-Advocacy Conversations

Having conversations about your needs doesn’t have to be awkward. Use these sentence starters to steer the discussion in a positive and productive direction:

• "I work best when I can focus deeply on projects, but I sometimes need help with organization. Could we schedule regular check-ins to help with this?"
• "I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD, and I thrive when given clear instructions. Would it be possible to get written guidelines for this project?"
• "One of my strengths is creativity, but I sometimes need reminders to stay on task. Can we set up a system of regular deadlines?"
• "I have ADHD, which allows me to think outside the box, but I might need more time for tasks that require intense focus. Could we discuss potential adjustments to the workload?"

Strategies for Sharing Your Strengths and Areas for Support

When you advocate for yourself, it’s important to strike the right balance. You want to highlight how your ADHD-driven strengths make you valuable while also being honest about the support you need.

1. Highlight Your Strengths: ADHD gives you creativity, passion, and lightning-fast problem-solving skills. Share these with pride!
2. Be Specific About Support: Identify the areas where you might need help, like time management or organization, and offer clear, practical solutions.
3. Frame Challenges Positively: Instead of saying, “I’m disorganized,” say, “I work best with structured systems and reminders to keep me on track.”

Example: “My ADHD allows me to focus intensely on projects I’m passionate about, and I excel at finding creative solutions. However, I sometimes struggle with staying organized. I’d appreciate a workspace with minimal distractions and regular check-ins to ensure I’m meeting deadlines.”

Turning Strengths into Superpowers

ADHD is full of quirks, but let’s reframe those quirks as superpowers. The key is learning how to use them to your advantage.

• Hyperfocus: Hyperfocus is one of ADHD's most powerful traits. Once you're in the zone, there’s no stopping you. Use this superpower for deep-dive projects and creative tasks.
• Creativity: The ADHD brain often thinks outside the box. Use your creativity to brainstorm innovative ideas and problem-solve like a pro.
• Quick Decision-Making: ADHD brains process information at lightning speed. Channel that quick thinking into making fast, effective decisions.

Pro Tip: Keep a “win list” of accomplishments. When ADHD makes you feel like you're not doing enough (we’ve all been there), look back at everything you've achieved. It’s a great reminder of how capable you are.

• Did You Know??Individuals with ADHD brains have 3% more creative thinking capacity than neurotypical brains. That’s right—your brain is a creativity powerhouse!

ADHD is not a disorder of not knowing what to do. It’s a disorder of not doing what you know. – Dr. Russell Barkley

• Fun Fact: Michael Phelps, the most decorated Olympian, and actors like Ryan Gosling and Emma Watson all have ADHD. If they can crush their goals, so can you!

ADHD Humor:

Why did the person with ADHD bring a ladder to work?

Because they heard the job had a lot of ups and downs—and they needed to hyperfocus on both!

Famous People with ADHD

• Michael Phelps?– The world’s most decorated Olympian found swimming as a way to manage his ADHD and hyperactivity.
• Emma Watson?– Known for her role as Hermione in?Harry Potter, Emma has openly discussed how ADHD has shaped her career and focus.
• Justin Timberlake?– The multi-talented pop sensation has shared how his ADHD has been both a challenge and a fuel for his creativity.

Advocating for yourself with ADHD is about embracing what makes you unique and learning to communicate your strengths and needs effectively. Remember, your “differences” are your superpowers. A little humor, lots of focus (when it shows up), and well-placed self-advocacy can lead to huge wins. So, go out there, be your quirky, awesome self, and ADHD your way to success!

Resources:

• CHADD?(Children?and?Adults?with?Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity?Disorder)
• ADDA?(Attention?Deficit?Disorder?Association)
• ADHD?Coaching?Academy
• Russell?Barkley, Ph.D. – ADHD?Research?and?Resources

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