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She just said “I don’t think he is going to find someone better than me. I stay in the gym, I clean, I cook, and I satisfy him in bed but he still abuses and treats me like I am not enough. I love him SO much, and I can’t imagine life without him. He promised to change. Should I really LEAVE him? Shouldn’t I stick around to prove my support and commitment?”

Lately, I’ve just been thinking over her conversations like “Damn! Who raised these MEN. There need be more to this relationship of a thing!”.

My heart aches for all the women out there stuck in an abusive relationships. The ones who live in fear, not in love. The ones experiencing depression and anxiety, while also noticing that their children are showing signs of depression and anxiety. The ones who weep on their way home after work because his words and actions often don’t add up and you can't confide in him. The ones who hide bruises & injuries, work their hands to the bone due to 2 to 3 jobs to feed, clothe, and educate their kids, while he continues to rack up debt and spend thousands on his addictions while dodging his responsibilities. The ones who yell at God and struggle with their faith because of the unrelenting years of double abuse and doubting if things will eventually get better.

Sweet, beautiful woman; let me share some profoundly painful wisdom with you…

No parent, friend, pastor, or mentor can tell you what to do in this situation. You must decide for yourself the bold step.

It’s never too late to LEAVE. If he hits you, screams and isolates you, and controls who you see or talk to, it’s not love.

Or… you may never choose to LEAVE, believing you are trapped in this because of your kindhearted and trusting initial vow, and live out your days a hollow, lifeless crust of the vibrant and beautiful woman you are now.

Yes, you could survive it.

Yes, you could become a fighter in the process.

Yes, you may find healing on the other side.

But if you already know what you are facing and how it affects your state of mind, why choose to walk into or stay in hell?

If there’s one thing you can do right now to love him well — it is to wish him recovery and walk away at the first sign of broken boundaries, double life, and addictive behaviors. He can get clean, find healing, and become healthy and whole — without you.

Whatever dilemmas you face, precious young woman, make sure you ponder ALL the ramifications and make a fully informed choice.

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