Add Value to Yourself to Value Self and become Valuable

Under-valuing ourselves is the major root-cause of – why we are unable to utilize our optimum potential, capabilities, strengths and skills fully and be our greatest and bestest self - and why most of our dreams remain dreams.

There is an unwritten law of nature - the law of self-fulfillment – which governs our quality and degree of success, accomplishments, joy, happiness, growth, contentment and endearing relationships.

21 Fundamentals to understanding self-value better

1.     Many people attach their self-worth, their self-value, their happiness – to others opinion and how others treat them.

2.     If you are a person who depends too much on others for your joy, happiness and feeling good – needless to say – you will be perpetually disappointed.

3.     Your value and worth - should never decrease because of the incompetence and inability of others – who can’t see what a beautiful wonderful person you are.

4.     Neither should your value - get affected by someone projecting their insecurities on you and when they blame or criticize you for their miseries and also when they try to control and dominate you or try to make you look inferior.

5.     Let us understand few practical basics to make us feel jubilant naturally and internally always

6.     Our pride is about our feeling completely comfortable with who we are – with our complete awareness and acceptance of - all our mistakes, failures, weaknesses and strengths 

In this article we will learn

-         15 daily reminders – to read and Remind and reinforce your self-worth and self-value - within yourself every day

-         17 question - Checklist Do you need to work on your self-value, self-worth, self-love – the solutions and how to handle each points given in my separate videos and blogs on that topic

-         22 inner-resources to identify, uplift yourself and Drive-up your values [this list is given only to stimulate ideas so that you can identify your own]

-         35+ Action-Steps to build a high self-esteem

-         14 Tips to build value in case you are unemployed or have lost your job due to this corona pandemic

-         21 Fundamentals to understanding self-value better

35+ Action-Steps to build a high self-esteem

1.     Take responsibilities for taking powerful action to create massive positive changes in your life

2.     Choose to practice discipline daily in all important areas of your life - do the right thing even if it’s the hardest thing -be true to yourself and your values

3.     List all the failures and setbacks you bounced back from

4.     Identify and celebrate small victories

5.     Create an inventory of achievements – just list all – don’t bother about whether it is small and huge

6.     List all the ways you have done so far in your life for others – the meaningful positive differences – which can be measured

7.     Always believe that you need to update, upgrade and reinvent yourself to stay employable and in demand

8.     Learn learn learn

9.     Compete with yourself only - stop comparing yourself to others. 

10. Be consistent in what you say, what you promise and what you do

11. Identify in how many specific ways you can add value to yourself in all situations and environments

12. Take action- take the charge and lead of your life - Become an action person rather than talk-person

22 inner-resources to identify, uplift yourself and Drive-up your values [this list is given only to stimulate ideas so that you can identify your own]

1.     Your sense of humor

2.     Your caring and listening abilities

3.     You empathy

4.     Your noticing positives about others – this you also need to practice on yourself – if you have this powerful quality

5.     Your passion to create positive difference

6.     Your giving back through volunteering, teaching, helping others

For full article - please read "How to add value to yourself by becoming valuable" in Success Unlimited Mantra's blog section "From the Heart of Subhashis"