Actions speak louder than words!

The phrase actions speak louder than words has existed for centuries, but what does it mean? Simply put, it means that what people do carries more weight than what they say. In other words, people are judged not by what they say they will do but by what they do. This phrase is particularly relevant today when we receive countless messages and promises from individuals and institutions. Politicians, for example, are known for making grand promises during election campaigns but often fail to follow through on those promises once in office. Similarly, friends, co-workers, and even family may extend themselves, but their actions may not reflect those commitments when the rubber meets the road.

Being all talk speaks volumes about you. ~Frank Sonnenberg

Of course, nothing is ever black and white. Someone could have good intentions, but their circumstances or assistance abilities may no longer be available. The idea that actions speak louder than words is rooted in the belief that people's true intentions and values show through actions. It is easy to make promises or say things that sound good, but it is much more challenging to follow through on those promises and demonstrate a commitment to those values. It is best to grant grace when possible, but there will be times when individuals should be held accountable.

We are responsible for our commitments regardless of changing circumstances. Actions themselves have a more significant impact on others than words alone. When someone acts in a certain way, they are expressing their values and influencing the actions and attitudes of those around them. For example, a leader who models ethical behavior and makes decisions based on principles rather than expediency is likelier to inspire similar behavior in their team.

In relationships, actions are more meaningful than words. Someone who says they love you but consistently treats you poorly is not demonstrating true love through their actions. On the other hand, someone who may not express their feelings as explicitly but always shows care and support through their efforts demonstrates their love more meaningfully.

Whether it is personal or professional, be sure to watch actions to see if they align with words. I suggest not to be callous or too cynical; trust others but verify. "Trust but verify" is a well-known phrase used in various contexts, from diplomacy to business to personal relationships. At its core, the term emphasizes the importance of both trust and verification in building solid and reliable connections.

Trust, but verify. ~Ronald Reagan

The idea behind trust but verify is that trust is an essential component of any relationship, but it must be earned and maintained through action and verification. In other words, we should give people the benefit of the doubt and assume that people are trustworthy, but we should also be vigilant in verifying their actions and ensuring that they follow through on their commitments. Hence the phrase, actions speak louder than words.

Beware of people that talk but do not walk the walk. While we may trust our partners, friends, or family members, we also need to be aware of potential red flags and be willing to ask questions and seek clarification when needed. e.g., address issues or conflict as it arises, or it will only worsen. Doing so can build stronger, more trusting relationships based on honesty and mutual respect. Guess what? People can and will learn to live without. Furthermore, if people stay, they treat you how you allow them to. We all play a part in every interaction and relationship.

Fool me once; shame on you. Fool me twice; shame on me. Fool me three times; shame on both of us. ~Stephen King

In closing, actions speak louder than words remind us that what people do matters more than what they say. Therefore, holding ourselves and others accountable for our actions and recognizing our efforts' impact on others is essential. Furthermore, demonstrating our values through actions can build trust, inspire others, and create positive change in the world. Trust but verify is a principle that emphasizes the importance of both trust and verification in building solid relationships. By striking a balance between these two elements, we can create relationships based on honesty, and mutual respect while ensuring that our commitments and interests are protected.

Words are from the lips; actions are from the heart. ~Rashida Costa