ACHIEVING OUR DREAMS
- Often in our life we have a burning desire to carry out certain activities ,fulfill our dreams ,passion , hobby or vocation . But for most of the people ; at the end of the day the desire / wish does not realize into potential action or achievement. I have observed and found that there are normally five reasons ; due to which we never achieve our dreams and goals.
- First and Major reason is that normally we keep on procrastinating in order to reach the ideal circumstances and positioning in order to take the first step toward the realization of our dreams. However, in the practical world, there is no such thing as ideal circumstances; we have to put our full efforts into realizing and achieving our dreams in order to enable any circumstances into the best circumstances.
- The second reason is that we always look for big tasks; and not follow the step by step process of first achieving the small targets, enjoying the achievements and learning the process. Once we achieve our small targets / tasks; we develop confidence and internal satisfaction and develop a conviction that we have to ability to achieve our goal; and hence going after bigger targets will be easier for us since we know the road map, bottlenecks, as well as strategy as how to overcome those hurdles.
- The third reason is that when we achieve any hurdle or setback, we become over stressed and discouraged to the extent that we lose our confidence and will not go any further in the realization of our dreams. We miss the point that failure and success are part of the same coin;sometime we achieve success and on any other occasion we will fail.However, in actuality, there is no failure; even if we do not achieve our target; we still learn many things as an integral part of the whole process and in our next attempt we will be one step closer to our goals.
- The fourth reason is that no person is born with all the knowledge, expertise and wisdom; all of these traits are acquired and developed by building continuous and never ending habit of learning from the circumstances and the people surrounding us so that we can hone our skills and learn the art of a particular trade.Sometimes we feel shy to ask from the people with the internal feeling that what the other person is going to think if we ask from them;however, if we must understand that wisdom starts when we acknowledge that we not know everything.
- Fifth and final reason is that sometimes we do not have a clear idea of our own feelings , desires and dreams ;what we think as our own desire / dream & goal is never our own and in fact it is just the latest trend and pattern being practiced in the society. Hence, while in the midway we lose our interest and conviction toward that particular thing;resultantly wasting our time , energy and resources .Therefore, we need an thorough understanding of our own nature; in order to distinguish and separate out temporary desires from the never ending passion for a particular thing.
- I DO BELIEVE THAT BY GIVING DUE IMPORTANCE TO ABOVE FACTORS ; WE CAN ACHIEVE OUR GOALS AND DREAMS IN AN EASY WAY AND MANNER.
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Lead Executive QC&QA in Mughal steel and iron industries Lahore
5 年Excellent ideas Nohman bahi.If everyone amongst us will follow these 5 steps ,there will be no hinderence for achieving the required targets.thanks