Accepting where you are in life happily

By accepting the fact that we can do only our part and keep working towards our goals in life. Other things get aligned perhaps sometimes slower than usual. But they do. And by accepting the fact that others have an equal right to do what they wish to. At some point, and again and again, based on what you want in life , you will meet the right people for you. And this happens every time who move forward with positivity and hope.

I accept everything as positive way whether I get success or failure because there is always positives in every field of any activity or result. We should remember that : Jo Apni ichha se hua vo Acha, Jo na hue vo Hari ichha." It simply means that it is always good happenings at every result.If we get result as per our result it is good. We should not get demoralised to see opposite result even after doing good work. If we get result as per opposite to our wish then it is will of Lord Hari or God which is the best for us because our God is the best well wisher for us.

We should see in this way our life with smile. We should have so much happiness and smile by this positive thinking that the persons contacting us also become happy. To say you should find a way to accept your place in life implies that we are stuck somewhere with no options. While feeling we are stuck does sometimes occur, we must look at the current challenges that are making us feel that way and take steps to get to new more satisfying places in our lives. Examples: take a class at a community college, look for a new apartment, take a walk every morning, read, pray, eat healthier, throw out or donate the accumulated worldly possessions holding us back, get off the freeway, vote, help the homeless, listen to new music, talk to your children, not at them. Buy a used bike and ride it, get to the dentist, meet new people, I mean, the list is endless.

That's not to say we should reject everything about ourselves, but take honest assessments of what we can do and go for it. Try stuff. Most importantly, never look at each day as set in stone. Have less friends. Be less friendly. Stop having external validation. Don't chase people. Stop stalking your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't give a damn about everything around you. Shut your mouth maximum. Stop over thinking. Break up or patch up don't over give yourself to other person. Find happiness in small things. It's okay if you are a failure. Understand achievements are not mandatory. Stay away from humans when ever you get a chance. You need not be too good to others. Stop being extra nice. Live life slowly and calmly. Don't at any cost stop loving yourself. Shut the mouth up and mind your business.Stop taking revenge. Don't give a damn about others' opinions.

Simply by changing your perspective, by accepting your life for what it is, by accepting the fact that you still have a lot of life to live, and by learning to prosper with what you have. These things won’t change your life for good but this would change your viewpoint about your situation. And that’s what is needed at the moment. We live in a world where people post every single move on Facebook. See, what we see on Facebook is generally an edited version of people’s reality.

We see what they show as a mere 'showcase' of false things or an incomplete picture of their reality. And we misjudge the presence of positivity in their lives and overrate it. On top of that we get the wrong impression about the negativity that we have in our lives. So what happens is that we are conveyed a partial image of the truth, and what we end up with is comparing our behind-the-scenes life with one and all’s “best bit”. But does that make anyone more or less great? Does posting your life on Facebook make you winner? No! So, you don’t need to do that! No need to buzz out whatever’s there in your heart in front of every man jack.

As an alternative of calculating all the things that you could be or others are, try to analyse what you are. Evaluate your assets, your strengths, the ethics you hold, and the friends you possess. To cut the long story short, you just need to accept your present and past while working hard for future. Build a sense of concern and empathy for yourself and you’ll be able to pacify your life by creating a better-off and satisfying future. Cheers!