Accept the pain and be ready for success

Have you read or heard these lines before?

“ ki hum na chahte the hume kbhi itna dard naseeb ho ki hum khushi hi bhul jaaye

in jakhmon itna chalni kr diya he ki ab koi dard hume mehsus hi nhi hota”

There is famous saying “ Where there is no pain, there is no gain”.

To be too precise our mind is the supreme of all and it always wants to make us its slave but one who conquer his or her mind only succeed. Pain is nothing but simply one feeling generated by our mind. If we with the time and practice learn how to control our mind then we will find joy in almost anything we do. I know this is highly intellectual thought but this is the only fact. One who loves boxing will find immense peace in pain and to elaborate it there are many such examples.

Personally our mind tells us everything. Our success depends on the way we have guarded our mind. Pain sometimes shatter us instead of making us more strong. So it really does not matter that pain will make one to taste success. Life mantras are too simple. Agony when turn into learning will bring success. Enlighten the horizon of mind and teach him to work according to your desires. This the only way to reach up to that level of satisfaction and success.

I love to work happily with smiles . Pain is something I personally do not cherish. Working hard is not painful if you really enjoy putting efforts according to you will and wish. So pain has no space in my life. My success only depends on my joy. Eat-Pray-Love and dream. Success is based on your intelligent design, planning, direction, execution, taking right decision at the right moment, right place in agreeable situation & more than all that, it is providence that decides the result. Pain is the consequence of your struggle & reflects your efforts to achieve success. But pain is not precondition to success.

An intelligent & smart person can achieve success with minimum of pain & suffering as he knows how to achieve success with minimum struggle. But there are situations, where without taking pains you cannot achieve success. In this case, pain is an indication that you are reaching the point of success. In some situations even after great struggle & accumulated pain, you are not finding success, that is because you have ignored or overlooked vital clue to success. Hence merely taking pain without proper ingredients for success, makes no sense.

Because pain is merely an indication of your hard work, but hard work without intelligent planning & execution simply results in pain, but not the success.  success is just a part and parcel of everything else offered to us by Him. Pain is just the poster boy. Fear, anger, sadness, joy, disgust, etc they all have one common path, pain. Pain, is both, the road most frequently traveled and the road least wanted to be traveled.

Type any famous name on the google search engine, start reading about them, i bet you if you can find anyone who made it there with walking on a bed of roses. Success is a very routine word, with a diverse range of interpretation. Having a productive day around my books while fighting with my agony gives me a sense of success, for you it might be acing that examination , for some it is the picture of their shrunken tumor on their radiological examination and the list is endless.

Just sit down, figuratively and philosophically, start writing about yourself and your day. The first week will be the toughest. Gradually you will get a deeper understanding of your emotions and it is sad but we have a better understanding of quantum physics than of the thoughts that form us. Form a bubble inside your mind and define success in all the sub headings which your mind can pop. You will get the answer to your question and your success.

Some people grow up not ever knowing what the successful brings because they wasn’t strong enough to make it through the hustle. An it’s not that they wasn’t strong enough it’s that they believed they wasn’t strong enough. God will show you everything to make it through someone said to me once “ God will give you the ingredients to make a cake. He will give you the stuff and put it out for you and tell you what to do. But he will not make it for you. He will not bake it for you.

That is where you come in. You most put it together yourself. Sometimes you will mass up. But you don’t give up he will help bring it together he will show you all ingredients. But you most fix it together yourself. And however it comes out is up to you. “ you most receive the bad in order to what to get the good ! Cheers!