ABORTION
Victoria Gann
Founder, Author, Teacher, Counselor, and Service provider at Victoria's Love4love Ministry
This article from, Truth with Grace, is NOT written for any political gain for the democratic or republican party. It is written for this time to plant clarity about abortion; what it is, and how it affects every human's soul. It is written for all humanity, not just women, to gain clarity. Since I have experienced two abortions in my younger years, I believe that gives me the right to write about it and speak about it in detail. There is time for everything, and it is time to plant clarity to all about abortions and uproot falsehood.?
Ecclesiastes 3:1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:?
2 a time to be born and a time to die, at time to plant and time to uproot,?
3 a time to kill and time to heal, a time to tear down and time to build,??
4 a time to weep and time to laugh, a time mourn and time to dance,??
5 a time to scatter stones and time to gather them,??
a time to embrace and time to refrain, a time to search and time to give up,?
6 a time to keep and time to throw away,??
7 a time to tear and time to mend,??
a time to be silent and a time to speak,?
8 a time to love and a time to hate,??
a time for war, and a time for peace.?
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Before it is time to begin writing in depth about abortions, I will share with you a little about my experiences with my abortions. My first abortion was due to my neglect, ignorance, and lack of support from others. I was not thinking beyond my pleasure of sex. I was eighteen and unmarried. Sex for me, at that time, was an act that proved two people loved each other, and I had no knowledge about lust and what it was. I told you I was ignorant. I had no one to tell me what sex was and why it was physically and spiritually given to a man and women, but that is another article I will save for another day. I learned on my own?to do things my way, which was not an effective way at all. My second abortion was due to me and my husband's lack of resources and support to take care of ourselves and the daughter we already had. I was twenty-eight.? At the time we had no faith in our Heavenly Father and His Son through Their Holy Spirit, and we had no faith in ourselves to gain or reach the resources we needed. We wanted the pregnancy and child, but we could not see beyond our circumstances. We were living in our natural human nature and could not see past our human circumstances.? We were ignorant of the weight of guilt and regret that this choice would add to the other wrong choices in life we had already made. Now I know our Heavenly Father and His Son through Their Holy Spirit can only take the weight of our guilt, shame, and regret away. The measure of guilt and regret a person has and how we cover it up is another article, but every person that is involved in deciding to have an abortion experiences guilt, shame, and regret. It is only by the grace of God that I can publish this article and share with you the spiritual and intellectual knowledge I have gained concerning abortions. No one knows the spiritual guilt, shame, and regret we carry until our Heavenly Father, His Son, and Holy Spirit lifts it. I know each woman will experience guilt and shame from the choice to have an abortion. If she tells you she does not have any; she is lying. The only reason guilt and shame would not be present from this choice would be because the mother’s life, NOT lifestyle, would be threatened. Much like someone protects their physical life through self-defense if another human is threating to physically kill them. It is different because the baby has no clue they are not wanted. The child is not a threat. The pregnancy is the threat, and how it affects the mother’s survival. I have experienced a miracle from another pregnant woman that took place in her womb with the body of the baby before it was born.? Doctors have no explanation as the reason the pregnancy shows no threats?the day of the abortion was to take place when they were present a week before. So, make sure the day the abortion takes place those signs and threats to the mother’s life are still there.?
Now it is time to talk about laws and why they are made. Are they made to control people or protect people? Laws are rules made to bind people together for the common good. Laws are made for various reasons; these include protecting people, setting up standards for the common good, resolving disputes to support order, and protecting liberties and rights of ALL. Laws are given to give humans a sense of responsibility for their actions and provide a justice system to punish those who break them. So, If I were President or any kind of leader that would support a law, this law was given to protect people whether those people like the protection or not. For example: If I did not want to be protected by the law that is defined as premeditated murder, I would not support that law, but it was given whether I wanted to be protected or not. I believe everyone wants to be protected from someone who plans to have them?killed.? I have never talked to a person that does not want to be protected by this law. Does it take my freedom away if I choose not to follow this law? No, but if I commit this act of premeditated murder I am going against the law and will have to face the consequences of my actions before a judge and jury if I am caught breaking this law by true and sound evidence. Is the government trying to control me by this written law? Yes, it is trying to stop you from ending another person's life which is tragic or an extreme measure of hate.?Are we free to commit premeditated murder? Yes, everyone is. No law can control a person's mind. It is given to make us pause, think, and make a good decision.?
Now it is time to dive into what an abortion is and why it affects the mind of those who?are involved, including doctors.?An abortion is a method that is planned for those who are willing to end a life, and that is called premeditated murder. A killing of life is murder. The only murder that is justified is self-defense from one individual?that is trying to kill the other, or self-defense against a group or country that is trying to kill another group or country for the purpose of dominating their lifestyle in place of another for wealth or power-hungry reasons. Some are also deceived and think they are doing the right thing. God again proclaims one of His greatest truths.?
Jeremiah 17: 9 The heart (emotional part of the human mind) is deceitful above all things, and beyond cure. (human cure) Who can understand it? (What natural born human can understand it)??
Our freedom to live, speak, and think freely is being threatened every day. When we have tried every method to keep the peace, and one side does not want peace and threatens our physical life and freedom to live, it is time to physically fight with any weapon we have because most people do not wish to physically die. Only when a person or persons body?is physically threatened is killing another human justified in the American court system of justice. ?
When it comes to abortions Americans way of thinking has been like the waves of the sea for decades. They waver from an abortion's true meaning and justify their decisions by proclaiming a fetus is not a living human, or they justify the abortion as the right to do what they want with their body but neglect the body that is living in them. It is a living human, and it lives to grow just like every living species desire to grow, live and multiply. ??Every mature intellectual thinker knows this, and we do not have to be a woman to have an opinion about killing a life in a mother’s womb. A human fetus is unlike other humans who have the mature intellectual knowledge to say it wants to live, but we do not to be a woman to know a fetus desires to live like any other living species in or out of a womb or egg. A fetus has no voice to say it wants to grow and live just like all newborn infants that have grown outside the womb. Most people do not go beyond their own body when it comes to thinking about the body of the baby that is growing inside them. Most people are only concerned about their own body and do not think beyond it. I used to be a woman who only thought about her own needs.?
I have already written this article was not for any political party's gain. I am using Kamala Harris and Donald’s Trump’s comments about abortion because many humans think like them. I am not one who thinks like Kamala, I do understand why she thinks the way she does, and I do not hate her. I do think more like Donald Trump when it comes to abortion. Since they have a huge stage to proclaim these comments in their “United” States debate and campaign rallies; they are the perfect people to quote to bring clarity to the masses that hear their comments concerning abortion, freedom, and what laws are used for. The quotes we are going to address from Kamala is:?
“The freedom to make decisions about one's own body should not be made by the government! One does not have to abandon their faith or deeply held beliefs to agree that the government and Donald Trump certainly shouldn’t be telling a woman what to do with their body.”???
I have a few questions and comments of my own about this quote. If I were sitting down with Kamala?on a comfy couch with a cup of tea or coffee, I would not hesitate to ask her questions and make comments fearlessly with sincerity and respect. These are the comments and questions I have for her and all those who support her way of thinking.?
Do you think a United States of America’s written law can take away a person's free will to kill or commit murder??
?My answer is no. Anyone anywhere has the power to kill. Laws are put into place to bring justice to those who exercise their will for killing another human, it does not keep humans from doing it. I wish it did!?
It’s time to discuss the body. Do majority of humans have the power to plan and use their finger as a body part to pull a trigger or a hand to pick up a knife or another object to kill another person's body? I am assuming Kamala’s answer is yes. Do you think the United States Government’s law against this premeditated act of murder is a law that was put in place to protect other humans or to control their body? Do you think a person would stand up and proclaim this law controls the body and no government and certainly not Donald Trump has the right to put this law into effect? What makes this preplanned murder different than an abortion? Is the baby not another living being? I believe this premeditated murder law does attempt to stop a person's thought process before they use their body and resources to buy the gun, pull the trigger finger, or plan how to use the knife or any other method of killing another human body.? I think it is a good law that is given to protect humans, whether they like it or not. This law, like any other law, gives us time to collect our thoughts and holds us responsible for the thoughts and actions we take. Which leads me to Donald Trump's comments he made on one of his campaign rallies.??
?“I will protect women whether they like it or not.”??
?Donald does not have the best communication skills. I think he loves women, but he does not like the way some of them act or think. I don’t either, but I do not call them names and like other women I do not claim Donald is a small man or call him names like other women do. Does any government have the right to put laws in place whether all people want them or not? Yes, not all people are going to like all laws. Only the people who plan or support someone who is planning to take an unknown life would say this law against abortion does not protect life. Most women have no clue how an abortion will crush them and their endless ways they take to cover up their guilt and shame from it. Much like the guilt or shame any person has when they plan to take another human's life without that person knowing it.?
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Do you think the United States government, or any government, that has premeditated murder laws in place is trying to “control” their citizens fingers (body)? from pulling the trigger or do you think the government is trying to protect humans from being an innocent victim of a deadly crime by those who are free to plan, pull the trigger, pick up the knife, or mix the poison and give it to the innocent unknowing person? My answer is I think the law was put in place to protect the killer from doing something tragic if they want to be protected or not, and to protect the person from being killed.?
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Do you think a mother, or anyone should only be concerned with their own body and not the body that is living inside them? Do you think asking a mother to sacrifice?nine months out of her life is too much to ask to give the life inside her a chance to live? Do you think the mother’s nine months of sacrifice takes away her whole freedom? Do you believe adoption is too much to ask so the baby could have a chance to live, if the mother and father are not ready for the responsibility to raise it, or the mother has experienced rape or incest? My answer is yes, a mother should be concerned about her body and the body inside her. I do not think sacrificing nine months of her life takes away her whole life or freedom. No, I do not believe adoption is too much to ask.?
?The next quote from Kamala that she addressed to Donald Trump that was made at their first debate is:?
“You want to talk about what people wanted? Pregnant women who want to carry a pregnancy to term suffering from a miscarriage and being denied care in the emergency room because the health care providers are afraid, they might go to jail and she is bleeding out in the parking lot, in the car. She did not want that; her husband did not want that. A twelve- or thirteen-year-old being forced to carry a pregnancy to term because of incest, they don’t want that.”?
She went on to proclaim, under Donald’s Trump leadership, American women will have their pregnancies and miscarriages monitored by the government.?
It is time to talk about the word miscarriage, want, and who wants what.??
Miscarriage is not the same as an abortion. A miscarriage is a loss of life a mother does not want. An abortion is a loss of life a mother wants. Kamala needs to gain knowledge about these terms and use them properly. No mother who wants a baby never wants to experience a miscarriage. The law against abortion has nothing to do with miscarriage. I do not have to ask doctors if a mother was bleeding out in a car in an American emergency room parking lot, due to their miscarriage if they would be afraid to treat her. If all the doctors were living by oath to save lives, they would not hesitate to treat her. If a woman came to an emergency room and was bleeding out because she had a botched abortion, they would treat her. If the mother came to a doctor wanting to end the life of her baby through an abortion, then the doctor should hesitate and find out why and respond according to the laws that are in place, and that goes for the mother too.
If a twelve- or thirteen-year-old girl experienced abuse, rape, or incest the first thing I would address after checking her wellbeing is the individual that caused this abuse, rape, or incest to this young girl and use our justice system to do it. No one wants to be sexually abused, raped, or experience incest. Then after that, if I was a doctor, a member of her family, a friend, or counselor I would explain about the life that is within her body, and how this living person is not responsible for the abuse, rape, or incest she experienced. We would have in-depth discussions with each other and her family that did not cause the abuse. No healthy mature twelve- or thirteen-year-old, or any human wants to experience abuse, rape, or incest, and if explained truthfully, I doubt they would want to kill the life that is living in them. Nine months of her life is not too much to ask when we are speaking for the child who does not have a voice yet but wants to live like all other species want to live and even the mother wants to live. Adoption is the best way everyone keeps their free choice to live.?
If I were still able to have children, would I want my pregnancy to be over seen by the government? I would not care, but I am rare. I have nothing to hide. My pregnancy would already, with my permission, be overseen by my doctor or midwife. I am glad to have a government that is concerned with my health and the health of my baby. There are multitudes of women who live in poor countries that do not have enough resources to care about their citizens health or the health of their unborn or born children. I asked some of them when I went to Africa, and they all would love to have a government that cared enough to oversee the health of their pregnancies, their unborn babies, and their born babies. Perhaps Kamala should ask some of them.??
?The way people perceive love today I see the law of incest trying to be removed from “free to love anyway people choose” followers in the future. Freedom is good but we must have boundaries or chaos will always follow. Today love and truth have no boundaries in the way most people perceive them, but that is another article, and why we are experiencing so much chaos in the world today. At first, I was shocked how people perceived love and showed it, but now nothing surprises me.?
My hope and prayer are through Jesus by His Holy Spirit that all who read this article will experience more clarity in how they perceive our American laws, abortion, wants and unwants about this subject. God blesses everyone with His Truth through Grace.?
RETIRED
2 周The heart of an embryo starts beating at about 5-6 weeks of pregnancy. Under our law. Death is defined as irreversible cessation of heartbeat and respiration Murder is the unlawful premeditated killing of one human being by another !!! SO...ANY ABORTION AFTER THERE IS A HEARTBEAT IS MURDER !!! Is it that hard to figure it out????
HAPPILY MARRIED AND RETIRED
2 周Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences regarding your abortions. I would have liked to see more about the guilt, shame and regret that you mention briefly. How did it affect your relationship with your husband. Did the abortion cause a divorce, etc. I too had an abortion when I had been married less than a year. I was nineteen and living in an abusive marriage. Pregnancy was a way my husband sought to enslave me in our marriage. I was not going to be enslaved and deep down, my husband didn't want the responsibility of a child so he agreed with the abortion. The was guilt, shame and regret that haunted me for a long time. Years later, after I had accepted God's forgiveness and grace I moved past those negative feelings. I have also come to another conclusion, the law allowed me to have an abortion without my husband's consent, but if he had objected to adoption, that would not have been just my choice and I would have remained enslaved. God will judge me, I did suffer shame, guilt and regret but given the circumstances I don't believe I had the resources (including faith) to carry that pregnancy to term. I'm glad I did not give birth to a child that would have been exposed to domestic violence.
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2 周Well said Victoria
John 9:4 I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work
2 周Great perspective... ?? thank you mom
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