8 years in business, 8 highlights. [Wise Wednesdays]
Dr. Amina Aitsi-Selmi MD PhD
Chief Liberation Officer | Unconventional Coaching for High Achievers | Liberational Leadership and Career Transformation Towards Planetary Health | Multi-Award-Winning Educator, Transformational Coach, Author.
[Happy Eid if you are celebrating this week! May the fruit of your spiritual work nourish the world.]
It was the summer of 2014. I was sitting in a wooden cabin in the middle of Alaska when it struck me: of course, I’m going to take a leap! This was the pivotal moment when I felt a break from the expected path and that my life and career trajectory transformed.
This moment was preceded by two others that week:
1)??? Feeling paralysed on a mountain peak in Arctic Valley, then realising that if I just took one step at a time, it was easy and even fun.
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2)??? Seeing a receding, crumbling glacier in the Kenai Fjords and feeling a deep desire to align my work with bigger facts of life on our planet.
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That week, I decided to let go of the ‘safe path’ of local public health and took a risk to work on the UN Strategy for Disaster Risk Reduction at the intersection of health, climate change and sustainable development. Global Health had been a dream since university and this was my chance.
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This mini-leap set me up for a bigger leap in 2016. I took an ‘open-ended sabbatical’ and started working as a coach while taking a lot of time to slow down and breathe.
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This spring, it’s 8 years later.
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Fewer than 40% of businesses make it past 3 years and I’ve never had a business plan. But I’ve worked with many excellent coaches and mentors.
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Here are 8 milestones and insights from my longest career experiment so far:
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2016: Starting Wise Wednesdays and working with my first 1:1 clients (I tried one consulting gig but it was the coaching that took off – #1: Experiment then focus.
2017: Creating my first webinars, collaborations and the Leaders Circle (I was so shy on one webinar that the host stepped in to support me – #2: Accept help when you feel vulnerable.
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2018: A year of consolidation…
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2019: Wise Wednesdays goes viral on LinkedIn reaching millions of people (“People don’t leave jobs they leave toxic work cultures”). It took me 4 years to read the comments due to fear of visibility and criticism. #3: It’s OK to have boundaries while also being visible.
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2020: Launching my first group coaching mastermind (Presence, Power, Possibility). Memorably, the first person to sign up left her 15-year corporate career to start medical school during the programme. I almost cancelled the launch event due to anxiety and self-doubt – #4: “Confidence is not a requirement. It’s a result of doing scary things.”
2021: Winning Business Book of the Year in Personal Development and Wellbeing of the UK Business Book Awards (writing the book was a 6-month daily battle with an imposter demon – #5: Your creative power lives with your deepest fear.
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2022: Helping my parents become fitness enthusiasts! (This may be the most personally rewarding impact of all from my coaching skills – #6: You are more powerful than you think!
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2023: Launching The Sanctuary and offering a space to relax, reflect and uplevel with an impressive number of social impact CEO roles being landed by resting and gardening…#7: The more you relax, the clearer you can see, and the further you can leap.
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2024: Receiving the WIM Top 50 Women Award in Education and Coaching at the House of Lords and being featured in the Daily Mirror. At the awards dinner, I had a Déjà vu and realised that I had sat in that room years before as a government public health adviser. #8: Life works in mysterious ways. Trust it...
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I’ve reached a stage where people no longer ask me why I’m not married or don’t have children. Any legacy I create is through the relationships and impacts on people and spaces that I have the privilege of touching.
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While I don’t know what the future holds and I still don’t have a business plan, I continue to trust the intuition and inspiration that comes in alignment with this motto: to liberate others as I liberate myself – what I call a Coaching Ontology of Liberation!
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Or as a dear client used as his motto in embracing his path, paraphrasing St Thomas: If you bring forward what is within you, it will save you. Otherwise, it will destroy you.
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Bring forward the truth within you sooner rather than later. And if I can help you on your path, reach out.
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Thank you for being part of this journey.
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Have a great week,
Amina
p.s. I still work with only a limited number of people. If you’d like to have a Career Clarity Call and co-create a flexible roadmap for your next steps, book a call with me here >>. If you can’t find a time that works for you, let me know.
Specialist Coaching for Self-Actualising Women
7 个月Congratulations and thank for sharing your vulnerability on your journey. I’m just starting on my coaching business path aged 65 and your St Thomas quote rings true for me. Debilitating fear of visibility has held me back for most of my life. Now the time is right… Wishing you more of what thrives you in the next 8 years!