8 Signs You're In A Toxic Workplace
Melody Wilding, LMSW
Author of MANAGING UP & TRUST YOURSELF | Award-Winning Executive Coach to Sensitive Strivers | LinkedIn Top Voice | Professor of Human Behavior | Keynote Speaker | HBR Contributor
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For many people, work can be like a second home. You spend the majority of your waking hours dedicated to your work. Your co-workers and team may likely be the people you interact with most in your life, after family or a spouse.
Yet it’s impossible to be effective and feel fulfilled in a toxic workplace environment. Even if you?work from home, a negative work environment can transcend physical walls. The intangible qualities that make work a healthy or unhealthy place can impact everything from your personal life and health to your self-esteem.
The increased stress of working in a dysfunctional office can lead directly to job burnout, particularly for?Sensitive Strivers.
In my book?TRUST YOURSELF: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work, I explain that Sensitive Strivers are high-achievers who are also highly sensitive. This refers to about one in five professionals who is driven and ambitious, but also thinks and feels everything more deeply.
Why Toxic Workplaces Affect Sensitive Strivers More
Because Sensitive Strivers have a more calibrated nervous system, they tend to be more affected by their environment – for better or worse.?
8 Signs of a Toxic Workplace
How can you identify if you’re trapped in a hostile workplace? Here are eight telling signs you may be working in a toxic office environment.
1. You're told to feel lucky you have a job.
If you’ve ever heard this statement from your boss, it’s a major red flag. This scare tactic is a means of threatening you into staying in a marginalized position and is symptomatic of an organization that thrives on?bullying behavior?and control.
2. Poor communication reigns.
Do you feel like you’re left out of the loop regarding important information? A pervasive lack of communication characterizes most toxic workplaces. You may get little to no feedback about your performance, and when you do, it’s negative and harsh — not?the constructive type.
You may be doing the work of two, three, or four people, yet it’s not unusual for your boss or colleagues to take credit for your accomplishments.
3. Everyone has a bad attitude.
If you walk into work and everyone around you is miserable a la “Office Space,” then you may be trapped in a hostile environment. In this type of office, there is no enthusiasm; no one coming in?with smiles on their faces and no one ever says “I love working here.” A high turnover rate among employees is a good sign that people are fleeing very quickly, most likely because of their unhappiness and poor morale at the office.?
4. There's always office drama.
If cliques dominate your office, it can feel as if you’re back in high school all over again. You may be anxious and paranoid that your colleagues are talking about you. Toxic, cliquey co-workers are most likely to be found hovering around the water cooler whispering in each other’s ears. They make what should be friendly workplace competition seem hostile and dog-eat-dog. There’s always?rumors or gossip?floating around the office; misunderstanding, favoritism, and infighting are the norm.
5. Dysfunction dominants most interactions.
Do meetings feel like a waste of time, inevitably blowing up into disorganized chaos where nothing is accomplished? Are the company’s operations disjointed and failing? Toxic workplaces are full of confusion, arbitrary deadlines, lack of focus, and a general malaise that “this is the way it’s always been done.” If new policies or regulations are constantly getting added, or if management is never around to help solve problems, these are symptoms of a larger problem stemming from poor leadership and?low morale.
6. Your boss is a tyrant.
This type of boss is always trying to control your every move and you feel as if he or she is just waiting to pounce on you for messing up.?Toxic bosses?usually seem unwilling to listen to others and feel as if their way is always the right way. Your boss loves wielding his or her power and showing others that they’re in charge. He or she probably isn’t willing to lend a hand to help in tasks or give you credit for a job well done. If you feel as if your boss would expect you to come to work even if you were on your deathbed, you might be experiencing a tyrannical and toxic boss.
7.?There's zero opportunity for growth.
If you’ve approached management or HR several times regarding a lack of recognition and growth opportunities (such as promotions, raises, and challenging assignments), and have seen no changes, it may be time to leave.
8. You feel in your gut...something is off.
When your?intuition?says something is amiss, trust it. Physical symptoms you develop, such as sleepless nights or a racing heartbeat, can be your sensitive nervous system alerting you of danger.
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2 个月Melody Wilding, LMSW I was told just today by a guy who reposted this grow a thicker Skin yet I owe him no chain of loyalty. WHAT IRONY he reposted this what he does not believe in. One of the strangest experiences I have ever had he is building a community in Middle east his behaviour as a leader leaves too many red flags. But apparently he gets away with his dual attitude. I guess many a people still get away with it. I just heard him insult someone in a group meeting subtly I called him out later personally and he calls it a necessary act of starting a successful startup. That guy went silent as he abruptly interrupted him whilst he was about to speak. Then he did the same to his old colleague I called him out once more. Then he did to me. Lol told me if i can't handle it think other wise because" i will be entitled and commanding when it comes to this because i know that its the only way to get somewhere with a company" Some dudes are so petty. They get privileges out of luck and think they can dish out to people who are inferior to them. Narcissistic mindset. ??
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1 年Great overview. Thanks for sharing this.
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1 年I agree with
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1 年Thank you Maria and Melody for highlighting such important issue. We need the explore perfectionism on a deeper level.
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1 年Its amazing how in this day and age we are still speaking about this topic, I have worked inside and outside of Government, and it seems that both public and private workplaces go through this cycle every few years. I guess the biggest mistake we can all make is a want to stay in hope you can make things change rather than recognising it has happened, I am finding that when a workplace turns this way its very hard to make it change unless everyone involved wants it to happen.