8 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Thinks You’re Just An Option For Them.

Do Your Partner Is Really Into You And Doesn’t Treats You Just An Option For Them..????

Want to know if that handsome guy you’ve been dating is actually falling for you or just fooling around? Take this simple points to judge for yourself if you are reading the signs right????

Recognise these signs of disinterest so that you don’t allow someone to ‘pass time’ with you.

When the communication Sucks.

Effective communication is everything in a relationship but when you can’t ever find common grown, there’s a problem. In a fake relationship, there’s generally at least one person who feels like they can’t speak freely or has to compromise a part of themselves in order to make things work. If you’re not comfortable communicating your concerns or don’t feel understood when you do, the relationship is in serious trouble.

Most plans are spur of the moment.

Your phone buzzes. It’s 11 pm on a Friday night. You’re about to turn in after a quiet evening at home with a book. “Want 2 hang out?” This is code for something, and you know exactly what it is. “I couldn’t find anyone else so now I’m talking to you, Ms. Last Resort.” Pass.

You’re Constantly Drained

If you and your partner are at a point where you’re feeling like the relationship is too hard and it’s constantly draining you, this is a clear indicator of an unhealthy relationship. In a legitimate relationship, both parties take responsibility for their actions and any issues surfacing, not coming up with constant reasons to throw in the towel. If there’s a problem, there should be a desire on both ends to do what’s necessary to make things better.

They don’t take you to bigger events.

You know you’re an option and not really a priority when they don’t want to take you out in public to bigger events like parties, weddings, or birthdays. You’re a side thing, not the real deal.

They frequently bail on you.

Their plans are spur of the moment, and while they might agree to do something you want to at a future date, they often bail on you. This probably means that they found someone or something better to occupy their time.

It takes hours or days to reply to a text.

If you were a priority to this person, yeah, maybe sometimes they wouldn’t get back to you right away, but generally, you should be getting a reply back pretty quick. If they get back to you when it’s convenient, chances are, you’re a convenience.

You put in all the effort.

Let me guess: you make all the plans. You put in all the effort. They seem reluctant. If that’s the case, you’re definitely not a priority.

They say you’re too needy.

And this is the biggest crock of them all. When you reach out, or when you stand up for yourself, they put you down as too needy. Here’s an idea: forget them. Delete their number. Don’t respond to texts. Move on.