8 Really Short Question’s why it's important to “Think before you speak”
It’s human nature, sometimes we get so emotional about something that we forget to think before we speak. It’s like we are unable to make a decision on proper communication. Generally, we use to speak emotionally, we had higher emotions and then we try to connect any essential talk.
It’s a survey report where 89% of people take wrong decisions when they were emotional and having emotional communication with someone. It gives you the wrong impact whether you are right or wrong, most of the people can’t even think before speaking. Sometimes we need to handle those situations. Here I am asking you ten basic questions you need to think and then speak.
1.Do you think someone’s word shows their upbringing?
Yes, most of the time we can’t even think what rubbish we would talk to someone and after some time we got realize that we have spoken something wrong and the perception of our self becomes worst and maybe we heard that his/her upbringing was not good that's why they don't have the manner to talk. Here we always need to think before speak that at any place where we are going to speak we need to understand the situations and then talk.
2. Words can make or break?
Do you really know the answer to the above Querry that what word can do, if we don't know still we need to have a better realization of the effect of our communication? Most of the time it makes someone and most of the time it breaks someone's thoughts and perception. Let’s suppose you were indulging in any communication and it became very harsh, meanwhile you cant control your emotions and brutally scold your opponent but your opponent has not to revert you but you have said all the wrong things to them which shows that you have satisfied your ego but you may heart that person. At that time by your words can make them into a depressive state what exactly you can’t understand.
3. Words can be the Relation destroyer?
Whether we cant understand sometimes what we have already spoken to our loved one and most of the time we can’t handle the situations and fired on our loved ones but on the same situations if we control that situation and tried to handle without saying a wrong word to them then we can easily handle the situations. It's all about our mind that how we react on someone's comment and what we want, to make people guilt or suppressed.
4. Do you think It impacts deep?
What's your opinion? as per my opinions, it impacts a lot your words can distract someone or attracts someone. Its the only gift that you can give to someone. It would be the only pledge by yourself that you can’t hurt someone in your life. It's also a phrase in our society that “The arrow from the bow and the words from the tongue can’t be back”.
5. The vibration of your words will remind you after many years.
You have abused someone and maybe you forget that situation and busy in your work but after a long time, the intensity of that voice could remind you in its own manner.
6. Thinking gives you the knowledge and then greatness.
Do you agree about the current headings? if yes then I want to tell you that if you have good listening and creativity power then you can handle any bad situation. If you think for a while before opening your mouth then you don’t know what the pleasant work you are doing in your life. You should be polite in your nature then purity will come across and then your knowledge will increase, and when you are having good knowledge then your listeners will automatically increase, you become a magnet for others and the greatness come in your life.
7. Highly emotional sentences never right in any case.
What do you think, when you are not controlled by your logical brain then definitely you are in control of emotional heart set and mind my words at that particular time if you will take decisions then your decisions will never be true.
8. Your words always proved itself that it's your bank balance.
What do you think about your bank balance it is connected to your words because whenever you are facing any interview and you are not communicating properly then the results will not get into your favor. Sometimes you are selling something to your customer ad unable to make them understand what exactly you want to tell them so at that time also you can’t make the business that directly impacts your business.
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