8 Business Negotiation Books to Add to Your Reading List
When was the last time you negotiated with someone? You might think of a specific scenario — like buying a car or accepting a job offer. But I bet you had to negotiate more recently than that. The process of reaching an agreement with someone else is something we do all day long, whether you realize it or not. And nowhere is this more true than in a business setting — regardless of the type of work you do.
With great negotiation skills, you can build strong relationships, effectively solve problems, and avoid future conflicts.
Yet many folks still see negotiation as a skill reserved for those who make high-stakes deals, such as salespeople, lawyers, and business executives. You might even assume it is a painful process — involving hostile conversations and a zero-sum outcome.
But productive negotiation is simply the process of reaching an agreement that benefits everyone involved. And when solving problems or disagreements, these skills help ensure your voice is heard without creating an adversarial relationship with others. If you do not know how to do it well, you might be compromising too quickly and leaving value for yourself on the table.
Anyone in a business setting needs to know how to successfully negotiate, no matter what your role is.
The problem is, unless you are in sales, you likely have not received any formal negotiation training — it is a skill you need to learn and sharpen on your own. And I do think it is one everyone can and should learn.
This is why I often recommend the book Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Christopher Voss. He uses his experience as an FBI hostage negotiator to form counterintuitive, yet practical strategies for reaching agreements in any situation. It is a compelling read regardless of what you do for work.
But there are so many other great books on the topic. So I spoke with members of the Aha! team and asked many of you on LinkedIn to help me compile a list of some of the best business negotiation books.
Here is what you recommended:
- The Art of Persuasion: Winning Without Intimidation by Bob Burg
- The Book of Real-World Negotiations: Successful Strategies From Business, Government, and Daily Life by Joshua Weiss
- Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler
- Getting More: How You Can Negotiate to Succeed in Work and Life by Stuart Diamond
- Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini
- Negotiating at Work: Turn Small Wins into Big Gains by Deborah Kolb and Jessica Porter
- Negotiations on the Edge: Strategies and Tactical Steps for Difficult Negotiations by Matthias Schranner
Learning how to constructively reach agreements with others is not just rewarding for you — it benefits your entire team.
Effective negotiation increases everyone's confidence in the group's ability to overcome challenges in the future, regardless of your differences. And being able to work together towards a common goal without reservation is invaluable. Great teamwork improves productivity, cultivates creativity, and fosters a more joyful working environment. I think we can all agree that is worth the effort.
What is the best business book you have read on this topic recently?
About Brian and Aha!
Brian de Haaff seeks business and wilderness adventure. He is the co-founder and CEO of Aha! — the world’s #1 roadmap software and one of the fastest-growing companies in the U.S. He is also the author of the bestseller Lovability. Brian writes and speaks about product and company growth and the adventure of living a meaningful life.
Aha! is the world's #1 roadmap software. We help more than 5,000 companies and 400,000 users create strategic plans. The company was founded in 2013 by Silicon Valley veterans and product management experts Brian de Haaff and Dr. Chris Waters. Aha! is one of the fastest-growing software companies in the U.S. The company is self-funded and profitable, with an entirely remote team. Learn more at www.aha.io.
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3 年You are spot on with our suggested reading... I love Chris Voss and how he relates hostage negotiations with sales. Thanks for sharing!
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3 年This was the one elective in B-school that had the most interesting band required practical games, exercises and applications. How this is an elective and not core curriculum, how this is not adopted by everyone is beyond me and hence a great advantage for those who learn it! Do you know about the X-Y negotiation game, Brian de Haaff? I bet it will be a riot in your team retreats.
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3 年Influence is a great book