7 Great Habits of Remarkably Successful People

7 Great Habits of Remarkably Successful People

Good habits can make a world of difference in our lives. When we think wisely, we choose good habits. Likewise, when we think foolishly, we choose bad habits. Cultivating good habits and breaking bad habits results in a more fulfilled life.

Everything good and everything excellent in life takes time, effort, and commitment to achieve. Stepping out of our comfort zones may not be as comfortable, it takes courage; however, staying comfortable won't help us move forward to create the success we desire in life.

The benefits of cultivating and keeping good habits are worth our time and effort, even if it doesn't feel like it at the beginning. We have to be willing to think and act differently to get different results.

Good habits help us become more successful in life. Also, good habits are contagious. People pay attention to what we do, especially the people closest to us. We are able to positively influence others when our words and consistently actions are aligned.

These are 7 seven habits that can make us remarkably successful:

1. The Habit of Being Honest.

Keeping a clear conscience will avoid feelings of guilt and regret. When we allow ourselves to be dishonest, we waste energy thinking about the things we have done wrong and how we need to fix them. We can make better use of our time by doing the right things. It's never a good idea to justify or excuse ourselves. 

We're not perfect. However, we can be excellent. When we are filled with guilt and regret, we can't live at peace with ourselves knowing that our actions caused hurt, disappointment, and sadness in others. Being honest makes us feel free, and people appreciate us more for it. 

2. The Habit of Coping with Criticism in a Good Way.

To be truly successful in life, we must deal with criticism in a good way; without being defensive nor aggressive. We weren't born to be liked by everyone nor to please everyone. We'll face criticism throughout life. Learning to deal with criticism in the right way is healthy for us and is evidence of our rich character.

Criticism may come from people who care about us, people who can't relate to us, people who can't understand our values, and people who are negative or envious. Whatever the source of criticism, it can help or hurt. We need to choose to take the best and disregard the rest, and learn not take it personal.

3. The Habit of Having Inner Peace.

Inner peace is a choice that's available to all of us. We can control how we feel inside of us even when we are facing difficult circumstances and uncertainty in our lives. Having inner peace can set us apart from all the anger and hate that's all around us. We can either allow ourselves to be at peace or to be miserable.

 It's easy to get upset when things don't go our way, even the smallest things can cause great turmoil in us. Being at peace with ourselves, in any circumstance, brings unsurprising calmness and joy. Having inner peace is healthy and healing for our mind and body.

4. The Habit of Being Generous.

It's more fulfilling to give than to receive. What we give to others shows the essence of who we are. When we genuinely give, we're being totally selfless. There's already too much selfishness in the world that we need to encourage each other to give, and to give generously not out of pressure or pretentious reasons. 

Sadly, people who are selfish, greedy, stingy, and self-centered live miserable lives. The good news is that we can all learn to become generous if we want to. People who give with gladness live more satisfying and meaningful lives. Not all giving has to be material, we can give from our heart, time, and knowledge.

5. The Habit of Living for Today.

Living in the past and living in the future robs us of our joy to live for today. A tomorrow is not promised to anyone. Our lives may not be exactly the way we want them to be. However, we can choose to be grateful for today instead of focusing on "Only If I had this... I would be happy" or "I'll be glad when..."

It's okay to reflect on the past without dwelling on it. Also, it's okay to think and plan for the future without missing living for today. A good attitude is key in navigating through life, and an attitude of gratitude makes a world of difference.

6. The Habit of Keeping Things Simple.

Many times, we allow complexity in our lives. We want to solve problems that aren't ours and stress out about the smallest details. When we complicate things in our lives, we slow down our progress. We need to pay close attention to what's going on inside of us to recognize what's going on outside of us.

It's vital to learn to let go of things that deplete our energy such as trying to win an argument. Also, more isn't always better because the more we have, the more time we spend maintaining things. Simplifying our lifestyle is rewarding.

 7. The Habit of Being Disciplined.

Discipline makes us enjoy more of the things in life. It also leads us to have improved time and energy management to make the most out of today and to plan for the future. Disciplined people feel better about themselves. Discipline isn't easy. However, the point isn't based on easiness, it's based on results. 

Our desire to discipline ourselves shows that we're serious about becoming the best we can while achieving our full potential. Discipline is a constant action, not a one-time effort; discipline is being diligent to produce favorable results.

What habits have you adopted in your life and why? Please share in the comments section below.

Thank you!

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Frank Sonnenberg

Author, BECOME: Unleash the Power of Moral Character and Be Proud of the Life You Choose

7 年

There's so much wisdom in this article, Ivette K. Caballero. I hope everyone takes your advice to heart :)

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Sairaj Mohan

Head of Digital Image Post-Production Services

7 年

Very Inspiring and motivating article! Thank you Ivette :)

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Line Thai

Responsable grands comptes chez SUP INTERIM

7 年

Thanks Ivette for this article! it is really meaningful. :)

Mukta Sharma

Software Testing || ISTQB Certified || Certified Scrum Master-CSM || Stakeholder Management || Agile Methodologies|| SDLC || JIRA|| Cross-functional team collaboration ||

8 年

Excellent,Inspiring and thoughtful article. Loved it. However, i think one or two more could be added to the list: To be grateful of what we have. We should be grateful to God to all what we have received in our lives. We should not compare our life with others, that will consume power of contentment within us. We should be happy and grateful for what we have and aspire to get more. Second, We should help those who can not repay us in monetarily terms. Help a needy. Thank you!

Dr. Gobinath N.

AI | Cybersecurity | ICT | Web 3 | Board Member | Philanthropist

9 年

Indeed.

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