6 Things that you can start doing today to shift the polarity dynamic in your relationship

Are you feeling stuck in a situation where the polarity dynamic isn't going your way?

Do you find yourself often giving more than what’s being returned to you and not finding yourself seated in the proper power position to benefit from it?

Do you sense an inner restlessness, wishing there was something else to strive towards and nourish yourself with?

You don't have to remain in this one-sided state any longer.

It’s time to shift the polarity dynamic! By introducing these 6 things into your everyday life, you can create more contentment and start on a journey of self-fulfillment.

1.?Become aware of you: How you move? ..to grab something from the kitchen counter for example, how you look at him? How you talk to him? What words do you speak to him? In which way(attitude)? How impatient are you? How you are always getting and doing things for him?

Now?STOP?those behaviors and see how he reacts to it.

As you become more aware of the behaviors that are damaging your relationship and you change them or stop them, he will pick it up and realize that a pattern is broken and things are not going downhill as they usually do. He will start to do more and to be more attentive, this is when you need to be ready to praise him for doing the things that you stopped doing for him and encourage masculine behavior while setting new boundaries.

2.?When he asks for advice, don’t give it, in reality he doesn’t want you to solve his problem,?he just needs you to listen to him and ask him the right questions. So, when a question that seems like he is soliciting advice from comes up, see this as an opportunity to be interested in his inner world, and guide him to the solution with questions like: What do you think you should do? What are the possible solutions? How do you feel about it? I know that deep down you know what is best. I trust you. I trust in your judgement.

3.?Delegate more decision and responsibilities to him, and use the free time from releasing yourself from those tasks to?

4.?dive deep into cultivating feminine embodiment practices.

5.?Work on your beliefs around men, woman and relationships. Question yourself on what is your part in your relationship dynamic? Why do you choose to behave in certain ways? What is the beliefs behind your actions? Is that believe yours or from someone else? What do you really believe in?

I know changing behaviors and relationship dynamics is hard even more when we are set on our ways and have reinforced the dynamic for years, but this isn’t working anymore, and you are not happy. This is hard work pays off in the end in amazingly unexpected ways.

Here are two things to remember when changing the polarity dynamic in your relationship, meaning you embodying fully the feminine energy and role and him the masculine:

1. Expect him to fail

There's no doubt that expecting your man to jump into leadership mode and take charge of the relationship can be a bit of a pipe dream if he's been happily playing second fiddle until now.

That doesn't mean it can't happen, but once you understand the transition that needs to occur, you'll realize why boundaries are key to making sure there is space for him to rise up in his own time.

While it won't be necessarily easy for either of you, putting patience at the forefront will help manage any expectations and make sure changes are gradual.

Consider enlisting the help of female mentors or like-minded friends who understand the dynamics of relationships and personal evolution. With enough understanding and smart strategies, creating your ideal partnership is within reach.

2. Expect him to resist

No man is likely to embrace something new with open arms, and expecting your partner to accept this shift without resistance would be wishful thinking.

He may ask why the change is necessary when things appear to be working fine, not seeing the broken pieces underneath it all.

Men especially are known to put off looking at their marriage until it's out of repair, too late in many cases.

That's why it's so important for you as his partner to help him with the transition.

Don't let any complaining or whining get in the way - eventually, he will come around and own up to his responsibilities, eager and willing to take charge of your relationship for the better.

Changing the dynamic of any relationship, especially one that has been in place for a while, can be an intimidating challenge.

But it's important to remember a few key things that will help ensure success: staying positive and remembering you don't have to do it alone.

It is possible to create a relationship where both partners are taking care of each other and experiencing the satisfaction in their own growth and development.?

If you want to know how you can embody your feminine polarity step-by-step to become irresistible to men who want to pursue and provide for you (you don’t even have to do anything), then?watch my brand new training?on how to become a masculine man “magnet” who can safely relax and lay back into the arms of a strong, reliable man who makes you feel so loved and desired.

Bonus tip #6:

One tip to remember when changing the relationship dynamic in your relationship is to focus on the tone of voice. Women often take on a softer, more gentle language when speaking, while men tend to use an authoritative voice with global statements.

When you want to embody full feminine energy, make sure that your speech is consistent with that intention by using verbs and adjectives that are open-ended and softly spoken. On the other hand, if you are wanting him to embody fully the masculine role, be mindful of how he is speaking as well.

Encouraging him to speak with conviction and phrase his words as global statements can help support him in embodying masculine energy.

Voice is such an integral, yet often overlooked part of relationships.

As you transition into more balanced roles in your relationship, being mindful of the tone of voice you each use is important.

The feminine energy should be conveyed through a gentle tone and secure presence.

That being said, it's perfectly okay to express emotions vocally with strength and conviction, as feminine energy is ultimately a type of strength too.

Establishing the right balance between kindness and assertiveness in your relationship will help ensure both individuals grow together and respect one another.

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