5th Edition - What are you trying to prove?
Lucienne Shakir (MEd)
High Performance Business Coach and Mentor for Female Founders, their Organisations and Teams | Female Empowerment Specialist | Founder of the Academy??, Collective of Extraordinary Women?? and Female Founders Summit??
Happy Feb Folks!
Here's your next instalment of 'Diary of a female CEO', a newsletter focused on Female Empowerment in Entrepreneurship.
Each month I bring you information and support to fight against hustle culture and burn-out in order to create long-term, sustainable growth for female founders.
So let's get started, here’s what I feel you NEED to be knowing, doing and asking yourself as a High Performance founder in February 2023.?
Grab a cuppa - we’ve got a lot to catch up on.
This month's coaching question
Now we come to the subject line of this email.?
I want to share a coaching question with you that I use to REALLY get into a deep dive of what’s going on in your life.?
What are you trying to prove? And who are you trying to prove it to?
This is SUCH an important self-coaching question. Write out your answers (I tend to do this myself once a month to keep myself in check)
Then - shift your lens and ask yourself:
What do I need to prove to myself?
If there’s anything I know about working with my clients - it’s that women need more self belief. Learning to focus on proving to yourself rather than proving to others is a high performance trait we could all do with more of in our lives.?
Client News
I had such a brilliant evening at the Book launch of a client, Lisa Johnson in London last week. Her book, Make Money Online was released to a fab audience….which included some of HER clients -? including (get this…) Katie Hill from Blue Peter!?
I didn’t know who Callum Best was - which was hilarious, as we got lost together trying to find the party. As we walked round the corner we were papped (yep that’s right!) and it was the subject of a good giggle later in the evening.?
Here’s Lisa with her panel on the evening.?
The Collective 'spotlight' member of the month
We have seen a HUGE influx of committed members to The Collective in the last month - and I’d like to start recognising some of the incredible Female Founders that show up week in week out for themselves and their Businesses.?
This month, the recognition goes to Lorraine Venables.
Lorraine joined us towards the end of 2022 and has shown incredible commitment to her self-coaching and accountability.?
Lorraine is the Founder of Intrepid English, which supports people to speak English confidently through online courses and programmes.?
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You can check her website out here: https://intrepidenglish.co.uk/
What I'm Watching This Month
Oh My Gosh - I have been CHOMPING at the bit to share with you 2 new shows that I binge watched in January. I urge you to watch them - BECAUSE they are AMAAAAZING in their portrayal of women from history. Both set in a Western Style, they are very different but extremely insightful. Godless & The English.
What's I'm Listening To
I have found THE BEST PODCAST EVER. For all you Office fans out there - Office Ladies is a brilliant podcast by Jenna Fischer and Angela Kinsey (Pam and Anglea). Join them as they dissect in hilarious detail the filming, staging and editing of the American Office. It is truly brilliant and such testament to female friendships.
What I'm Reading
We read a book every 2 months in the Collective for our book-club. This month we are reading It’s About Bloody Time by Emma Barnett. I am LOVING it so far - and because it is some important for use to understand more about our cycles as women, I highly advocate you getting a copy. Anyone in the Collective is welcome to join the session on: Tuesday 31st Jan 2023 at 5.30pm - regardless of if you have read it or not.
What’s Coming up at Lucienne Coaching HQ
Plans for the Female Founders Summit are well underway and tickets will be up for sale very soon.?
As with last year - there are only 50 tickets and all proceeds go to charity. We have all day Masterclasses being given by some of my most incredible clients, as well as an evening summit with an extra special guest speaker.?
I CANNOT wait to announce the line-up but I can tell you that Lea Turner and Carrie Green have already confirmed that they will be running Masterclasses again.?
I expect this year to be a very quick sell out. Tickets will go out to priority list sign ups first - so if you’re not already on there, please get yourself signed up here
Tickets are a ridiculously value based £350+VAT (£420 in total) and training with our speakers would cost THOUSANDS if you were to work with them at this level.
I would LOVE to see you in Manchester on 7th July 2023.?
I love to hear from you - so if you have any recommendations, suggestions or questions you’d like me to cover in the future - drop a message in the comments and I’ll make sure to cover them.
Sending you so much love,
Lucienne
Transformational life coach: Supporting female leaders to breathe life back into their soul and THRIVE through self love ?? 1:1 coaching. Group coaching. Retreats. Corporate packages. Keynote speaker.
2 年Such a good question Lucienne ?? Shakir it brought up a lot when I reflected on it yesterday watching the collective replay. Thank you for asking it, it really struck a cord ??
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2 年You’ve been papped and you didn’t even know why ????
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2 年Enjoyed reading your newsletter. I love that you host in person events. It's something on my list eventually. And I'm thinking about your question around What do you have to prove and to whom? For me, it's less about proving to myself (and I truly don't care about what others think I'm capable of) - what gets me is the timing of something coming to fruition. All my life, I've been two steps ahead of myself - wanting everything yesterday. As an entrepreneur, that presents a challenge!
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2 年Well Said.
CEO of Intrepid English | Managing Director of Bridge to Excellence (Jassour) | Bridging Innovation, Learning & Development in Languages, Environmental Sustainability & Business Skills
2 年You have made my month, Lucienne! The CEW has been such a wonderful resource to me over the last few months and it’s now a non-negotiable part of my week. You’ve created an incredible community and it’s a pleasure to be part of it. Thank you! ??