50 Success Habits, Principles and Values that Have helped me in my 50 Years

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” — Matt 6:33

Please, don’t pass judgement on anyone that you will not want passed upon yourself, because believe me when I tell you there’s no limit as to what any human being can possibly do with their lives. ?— Kathy Buckley.

Today marks 18,263 days since my vagitus!

During an interview with Pastor Abraham Siafa, I had time to reflect on my journey. It was a cathartic experience.

Looking back at my humble beginnings, the challenges I have overcome, and the blessings I have encountered, I feel truly blessed.

Pastor Siafa asked me what advice I would give anyone looking to achieve their dreams and aspirations. I could only draw from my experience going from the boy working at construction sites for school fees to the author, entrepreneur, and CFO for an operating company of one of Africa’s most influential and valuable brands.

In celebration of my 50th birthday, I hope you find something from my list of 50 habits, principles, and values to help you overcome your limiting beliefs, dream big and find the courage to believe in yourself.

1.?????????Put God first.

2.?????????Treat everyone with respect and humility.

3.?????????Act with integrity.

4.?????????Innovate.

5.?????????Be grateful.

6.?????????Remember the people who helped you.

7.?????????Turn positive behaviour into habits.

8.?????????Self-education and continuous learning.

9.?????????Remove obstacles from your environment.

10.?????? Embrace change.

11.?????? Never look for the easy way out.

12.?????? Be patient.

13.?????? Write down your big, hairy, audacious goals.

14.?????? Create the life of your dreams.

15.?????? Take the first step – it is the most important.

16.?????? Lead an active lifestyle.

17.?????? Always give your best or nothing at all.

18.?????? Progress is better than perfection.

19.?????? You are responsible for my happiness.

20.?????? Your reaction is more important than what happens to you.

21.?????? Communication is the most essential leadership skill.

22.?????? Leadership starts with leading yourself.

23.?????? Focus on making a difference and not a Dollar.

24.?????? Giving is the secret to abundance.

25.?????? The right questions can open doors for you.

26.?????? Follow your instincts.

27.?????? You invest your time in what is most important to you.

28.?????? Don’t be the smartest person in the room.

29.?????? Time lost cannot be regained.

30.?????? You get what you deserve, not what you want or need.

31.?????? Do not make decisions when your emotions are high.

32.?????? You are as resilient as your support system.

33.?????? You need a cheerleader who believes in you.

34.?????? How you handle the little things will determine how you will do with the big stuff.

35.?????? Don’t judge people by their present circumstances.

36.?????? Your value is proportional to the problems you solve for others.

37.?????? Do not complain about the things that you cannot change.

38.?????? Treat others how I would want them to treat you.

39.?????? Do not put off what you can do now for later.

40.?????? Do not sweat the small stuff.

41.?????? Always have a meaningful pursuit.

42.?????? The end is more important than the beginning.

43.?????? Enjoy the journey and celebrate every step of the way.

44.?????? Be deliberate about building a lasting legacy.

45.?????? Always choose courage over comfort.

46.?????? Your reputation is your opportunity currency.

47.?????? Always do better than your last best.

48.?????? Take risks and trust the process.

49.?????? Empower others to be empowered.

50.?????? Failure is part of the success. It is okay not to be okay sometimes.

Ultimately, I believe we will find our passion and purpose and experience a fulfilling life when we answer the following questions sincerely.

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?" — Martin Luther King, Jr.

I hope to post anecdotes over the next 50 days about the above habits, principles, and values.