5 Workplace Lies & What to Do About Them

5 Workplace Lies & What to Do About Them

Sweaty hands! Shaking legs! You’ve just delivered a key presentation to the board. This idea has taken you weeks of research. You get polite smiles and a vague promise of "we'll take it under consideration." Disheartened, you tell yourself, "At least they value innovation here." But a nagging feeling persists: is that entirely true?

Or do they just say that?

It sounds pretty cut-throat, but instead of trying to sugarcoat it, we should face the reality of how the human mind operates within a workplace context.

The truth is that workplaces are complex ecosystems, and sometimes, the mantras we hear don't quite match reality. Here are 5 common lies we tell ourselves and why it's important to be aware of them:

1. "Employees Are Our Greatest Asset”

This one can sting. You put in the extra hours and go the extra mile, but promotions seem to go elsewhere. While some companies truly value their people, for many, employees are seen as a cost, not an investment.

The Fix: Focus on developing your skills and network. If your company isn't nurturing your growth, consider exploring opportunities elsewhere.

2. "We Have an Open-Door Policy"

I’ve never met a manager or seen a company without an open-door policy. But how many employees go through that door? That’s the real trust test.

Imagine approaching your boss with a well-thought-out concern, only to be met with a dismissive, "Now's not a good time." Open-door policies are fantastic in theory, but true openness requires a culture of psychological safety.

The Fix: Seek out allies in the company. Talk to trusted colleagues and gauge their true openness before voicing concerns.

3. "We Put Customers First”

This mantra can feel hollow when pressured to meet unrealistic deadlines or quotas at the expense of customer satisfaction. While some companies prioritize customer experience, others prioritize short-term profits.

(How often have you wasted time listening to “We put customers first,” kid sister, “Your call is important to us?”)

The Fix: Look for opportunities to go the extra mile for the customer, even within existing systems. Focus on building trust and loyalty, which can benefit both the customer and the company in the long run.

4. "Trust Me"

This phrase often uttered during company-wide announcements, can feel hollow after a string of broken promises. Trust takes time to build and rebuild.

The Fix: Hold leadership accountable. Look for evidence that actions align with words. If you are a leader, follow through on your promises or make authentic amends when you can’t.

5. "Take Risks - Be More Innovative”

Feeling stifled by a culture of "play it safe"? This seemingly innovation-friendly mantra can feel empty if new ideas are consistently shot down. True innovation requires psychological safety and a willingness to experiment.

The Fix: If the company culture doesn't support calculated risks, focus on excelling within existing structures. Innovation can also happen on a smaller scale within your team or project.

It’s often not that a group of people want to be liars. They generally want to be seen as the good guys, and these “lies” might be true in an ideal world. But we need to be aware of and work within what is real. Just be careful of organizational platitudes.

Your leadership journey is up to you. It helps to see the way clearly so you can travel safely with those you lead.

What can you do now, today, to watch out for areas where words don’t align with reality? Message me with your answers by hitting reply to this email. I'd love to know.

Maximize your leadership potential today! Dive into the secrets of your brain's productivity and lead with clarity. Subscribe to our newsletter for more insights.

Until next time.

Mike


Chris Ohlinger

CEO at Service Industry Research Systems

4 个月

Couldn’t help but smile about your first observation “Employees are our greatest asset”. I remember that being worded to me in a semi-joking, PC way when the presenter said “if our employees are our greatest asset, how come we can’t sell them?” Keep up the great & innovative work my friend. Always great to hear from & listen to you.

The Army misses you.

Darryl A. Lansey

Lifelong Learner, Leadership Nerd (LERD), Photographer, and Author

5 个月

Thanks Mike. As usual, you have captured the realities of organizational life, while providing actionable steps to deal with them. I can tell you within 15 minutes of entering an organization and talking to people whether real trust and psychological safety exists or is it a place where the platitudes on the wall posters prevail.

回复

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Mike Mears, Leadership Theoretician的更多文章

  • Taming the Tiger: Strategies for Leaders Facing Difficult Conversations

    Taming the Tiger: Strategies for Leaders Facing Difficult Conversations

    You never know when a difficult conversation might arise! Are you ready? Difficult conversations are inevitable…

    4 条评论
  • The Three Types of Bad Bosses

    The Three Types of Bad Bosses

    It’s a fact. Bad bosses drive employees crazy and hinder the growth of organizations.

    6 条评论
  • Freeze Out Fight-or-Flight in the Boardroom

    Freeze Out Fight-or-Flight in the Boardroom

    In the hot seat how do you bring your best negotiation and conflict-handling skills to the table? We’ve all heard about…

    4 条评论
  • Want to be a Better Person? Just copy your best boss's behaviors.

    Want to be a Better Person? Just copy your best boss's behaviors.

    Who on their death bed ever said, “I wish I had spent more time on social media?” Later in life, people focus on their…

    4 条评论
  • What a Good Leader Must Know About Carrots & Sticks

    What a Good Leader Must Know About Carrots & Sticks

    If your main role as a leader is convincing people to improve, do you need a 2X4? Do you have to wave carrots in front…

  • One Ridiculously Easy Way to Build Trust is to Stop Doing This!

    One Ridiculously Easy Way to Build Trust is to Stop Doing This!

    Want to be Respected as a Leader? Avoid the platitude trap. Boardroom Bingo! Have you ever played it? Sitting around at…

    4 条评论
  • How The Mind Tricks Itself

    How The Mind Tricks Itself

    Have you ever tried to sell an idea and watched as the meeting suddenly derailed itself? Last week, I sat in a meeting…

    3 条评论
  • Your Secret, Untapped Energy Source

    Your Secret, Untapped Energy Source

    Are all the emergency lights flashing when you climb into your leadership cockpit? If you're like managers I informally…

    2 条评论
  • Don’t Be Yourself

    Don’t Be Yourself

    You can go off the rails following that popular “Be yourself“ advice we hear everywhere. Why? Leadership success…

    11 条评论
  • Yes, there is a Leadership Brain!

    Yes, there is a Leadership Brain!

    Armed with a few simple facts about how your brain works can make your workday world easier. It all comes down to the…

    6 条评论

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了