5 Tips for Being an Unforgettable Speaker
Roquita Johnson
Certified World Class Speaking Coach | Trainer | Professional Speaker | Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author | "Slay the Stage!"
Over the past seven years, I’ve competed in quite a few speech competitions. I’m still an active member of the Toastmasters International organization, and speech contests happen twice a year during the spring and fall. One of the proudest and happiest moments of my life was when I placed first, out of 8 contestants, in my Toastmasters district’s Humorous speech contest in the fall of 2014. No easy feat!
The International speech contest is the major speech competition held every spring in Toastmasters clubs across the world. I also participated this year, and made it to the division level last month. While I did not win (I placed second), it was still an exhilarating experience! From the talented competitors to the speech topics to the energy everyone brought to the stage…every contest I’ve been in is always different from the one before.
Recently, I was reflecting on what the best contest speakers have in common. There are certain qualities that these speakers share that make them stand out from the competition, from what I’ve observed through the years. These are qualities that will help you give a memorable performance, no matter the type of speech.
1. They take the audience on an emotional rollercoaster. The top competitors I’ve seen don’t let their audience members remain in an emotionally static state during their talk. They tell personal stories and give examples that make the audience feel high highs and low lows, like a rollercoaster. The audience member feels very happy one moment, then sad, then anxious in anticipation of what will happen next, and then finally sweet relief! You get the picture. I remember listening to a contest speech once that was sad and depressing the WHOLE time. I couldn’t wait for it to be over! Make sure your speeches have a dynamic element that ensures the audience feels a range of emotions, which helps you maintain their interest and attention.
2. They stay focused. The best speakers aren’t the ones who never make a mistake; they’re the ones who make a mistake and move past it. They don’t dwell on an error. Some might even acknowledge it by making a joke! During one competition I was in, a contestant had trouble remembering some of her points. After one particularly difficult moment recalling the material, instead of panicking – she paused and calmly referred to the notes she had brought with her to the stage. She looked at the audience and acknowledged she was having a few stumbles, but that she was “still going to get her message out.” I silently applauded her for that! Some people may have been too thrown off to continue, or been visibly shaken. She stayed focused on getting her main message across, and indeed did get through it.
3. They arrive before they arrive. The audience can feel your energy before you say your first word. When the contest chair announces a contestant’s name, and that contestant walks to the stage with an air of confidence and bounce in their step, I’m ALL ears for what they’re about to say. When the contestant has an excited energy about them, it makes ME feel excited to hear them. After the division contest was over that I just competed in, a woman from the audience came over to me. “I just want to tell you I enjoyed your speech. The way you walked to the stage – I was like ‘YES!’ I was ready to hear you!” Let your stage energy precede you.
What's your opinion? What other quality would you add?
To your speaking success!
Roquita Johnson
Award-Winning Speaker
Certified World Class Speaking Coach
"Let me help you Slay the Stage!"
Encouraging others to discover and confident enough to be their best self - one person at a time !!! Author of "Why People Work" - global trainer and consultant - university educator - digital trainer/digital producer
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