5 Steps To Confidence

It’s over you’re done.

You're outta there and there’s no looking back. You can’t believe you wasted so much of your life on a loser. It was going so well in the beginning. You were so hot for each other. Then one day you wake up and you’re twosome is an unsexy threesome and it’s all fallen apart.

There’s always a lot of bad feelings when relationships end and there’s always a loser and a winner.

The smart person would walk away from a relationship and then take some time to sit down and analyse what went wrong.

They would look at what they wanted from the relationship and then at what they got.

Maybe they wanted marriage and kids but their partner didn’t see them as marriage material?—?more like a friend with benefits.

Next, the smart person would start to work on themselves so that they behave like someone who deserves a great partner and doesn’t attract the wrong person next time around.

Spoiler Alert?

This is real life and humans don’t always do what is best for them.

Don’t believe me?

Take a look at the last 3 months of your life.

Did you set goals for 2024? Did you start them in January and lose commitment in February?

Most people have a brief intimate relationship with their goal and then abandon it as soon as they experience a negative result.?

Take someone who needs to gain confidence speaking English, they say, this year is the year I finally master English. They are determined to speak up at meetings and express themselves confidently.

They start off all motivated. But, they have a few problems. Conversations don’t go as well as expected and before long they are back to being the same old same old.?

Instead of learning from their mistakes and changing their strategy, they do the same wrong things over and over again. As a result, nothing improves.

They stop talking about their goals and dreams and lock them away in a cupboard marked failure. Where shameful secrets go to die. They step back into their comfort zone and lie to themselves. There’s always tomorrow, next month or next year but everyone knows tomorrow never comes.

You always have a choice.

You can give up on your goals or make the smart choice and start again but this time do it right and do it NOW.

The Staircase of Success

If you follow these 5 steps your chances of success will increase exponentially.

Step 1: Identify your goal.

Step 2: Decide who you need to become to achieve that goal. What knowledge/skills/systems do you need to be the person guaranteed to succeed?

Step 3: Who are you now and how do your skills compare?

Step 4: Identify the skills/knowledge/systems you need to get to your goal and set your schedule.

Step 5: Stick to your schedule. If you do miss a day, don’t miss two.

What are you waiting for? Start now!

If this all sounds a little time-consuming or complex I can help. I work exclusively with top professionals who want to unleash the power of confidence when speaking English. If you would like a clear path to English fluency I can help you. Book a discovery call here.

Successful people don’t just set goals they adopt a positive mindset which means learning from mistakes and setting up systems to ensure success.

Success leads to confidence.

Confidence gives you charisma and charisma is sexy.?

Go ahead and unleash your sexy today.

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